Real Talk:

Women can sense anxiety in a man like a dog can sense fear.

Once they detect it, you're fucked.

Just the fact that you don't know what to do in this situation means that you will fuck it up.

If you are worried that she will fuck someone else, she will.

If you don't have enough faith in yourself that you did what it takes to convince her to be faithful, she will cheat.

This isn't a matter of being snide or making fun of your dilemma. You have to be aware of your deficiencies. You appear to have a few.

Let it go and back away from the situation. I hate to use a commonly used line from a PUA's handbook, but remember: Don't chase. Attract.

haha problem solved :1orglaugh

I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I was just off backpacking in Australia and met this beautiful woman who I had sex with repeatedly.. you know like tore it the fuck up, hit that shit raw dog and bailed.. I remember her asking me this exact same secneario that you describe... she said her bf did something with websites or played with himself on his puter 24/7 she could never figure out which it was... So I will just save you the trouble of getting dumped when she gets back in a year or more and just thought I'd give you the news now.. she's takin dick like donny longs boat taking water

Do they all look like Crocodile Dundee?

If you tell her you don't want to hear from her again if she fucks someone.. you'll never find out when she fucks someone.. and if you're all worried about it, she'll do it.. nature is a whore and she'll fuck ya every time, son

cut her loose....

If it was that serious then she wouldn't have gone. :2 cents: Listen to Quantum-X dont wait around. Do your own thing then see where you two are in a year. Either way you will have to do your own thing eventually it all just depends how many months you want to make yourself stress out.

Ur in a lose-lose situation. Suck it up and let her go for a year.

I think thats the smartest thing I ever heard Baddog say :thumbsup

:2 cents: sound advice

You were all right on the money. Out with the old, in with the new!

Logic worthy of a programmer :)

It´s hard to hold the line if you get fucked in the ass and suck dick at the same time.

OK, I hope for you that it´s technical problems causing this.:)

so she cheated? :D

ya so what happened?

this point was key you never leave someone you supposedly love for a year. that just doesnt make sense. that means she is looking for more and just having you as a backup until she finds "what she is looking for".

give us the 411! you can make a diff in some other dudes life from wasting his time. alot of people have been cheated and used no biggie. when it happens to you it teaches what you need to do for yourself first and foremost.

yep, last week I almost booked a flight to travel a few months through asia with her, few days before i would book i talked to her, conscience got the best of her and she confessed. Im just glad she said it just in time. Wasted my fucking time but i always have to learn things first hand.

so is life.

the fucked up thing is she prob held it from you. so while she is off doing her own thing you are at home being faithful.

fuckin ho'

Had that happen to me and saw that "movie" lots of times with other people...

That pretty much covers it..

Move on or be prepared to daily mindfucks :helpme that will most likely end up in nada.

A sadder and a wiser man, He rose the morrow morn.

exactly, she said it happened about a month ago. I already had a feeling something wasnt right during that time but the past 2 months i havent been bugging her with my doubts, just played it cool. 3 weeks ago she almost desperately started saying she loves me again and all that shit so i sensed something happened - looking back it looks like she was feeling guilty as hell.

have some trust in GFY adivces next time :)

yep dont be afraid to move on man!

shit hurts, it happened to me once. girl said she wanted to have my kids, get married etc etc. then she kissed some dude, that was enough for me to move on because she was already playing games and i didnt want to take a risk on what's next. but some people what can you do. just be glad you found out NOW. some people go on and NEVER find out.

i personally have never cheated and can keep my dick in my pants no prob. just like alot of women can close their legs no prob.

just thank God you didnt end up marrying her. only certain types of people are capable of cheating.

and straight up the best way to get over it is finding new pussy and breaking ALL contact with her. you may always have that 'why did it happen, what if' but it serves you no good.

when you get your dick wet with that new pussy it feels like the most amazing payback. :thumbsup

it was doomed all along

she sounds like an immature cunt. moving on is a great idea

I doubt that was the 1st time, reading your post almost gives the idea you empathize with her and are willing to forget she cheated on you... :disgust

nope, you got the wrong impression then.

sorry to hear man, hopefully you two can figure it out when she gets back

lol
congrats to the wieners.

Are you still having boner problems?


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ahhh poor men....

I suggest you buy every Too Short CD ever released and study it.

Why, I love the Crock Dundee figure :):pimp

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May I ask how old you are?

Just fuck her a few times when she gets back then get rid of her.

It will make her feel like the useless whore that you already know she is.

They are called Sociopaths

:1orglaugh :thumbsup

Some lessons have to be learned the hard way.

never trust women :2 cents:

BINGO

there is no better feeling then when an EX everyone 6 months comes back like clockwork and you fuck them then tell them you cant talk to them anymore.

make sure you keep your feelings in check or else it can fuck you up though. LOLZ

frig i just read up on the full definition and it blew my mind so true.