Does it get to the point where the fun goes away ??

Or was it something else??

It took a couple of years, but yeah... going to the beach or going out on another cocktail sunset catamaran cruise or going to another luau, snorkeling, jetskiing,.... it all became old. And it sucks when the things you've always wanted become boring. What's left to chase after?

How about something at home, like the coast guard (if its geographically possible) or law enforcement (if you can find work). Perhaps something in law enforcement that is tech-related. Some adrenaline and you do good service.

The thing about the armed services is, you just may end up doing counter-insurgency bullshit, or worse: supporting american contractors get paid in some godforsaken part of the world.