Reading most of the replies, nobody seems to have a stable relationship besides you. Take into consideration that this is a smut peddler board and not a life coaching board.:2 cents:

Talk to your girlfriend about it and if you feel uncomfortable with the situation, just tell her how you feel and take a common decision, find a common basis.

http://www.reddit.com/r/self/comment...cock_how_do_i/

posting on reddit are we?

I did not post that there but thanks for letting me know about it.

I will pay 500 to be the guy... she wont notice the cam

lol call me stupid or whatever names, ive been around enough to know that his girl will cheat on him,

WTF, she is young, she WANTS to fuck other guys, let her go.. she will end up fucking other guys one way or another

and no im not stupid.. i lived in panama for a while, went to the clubs there, and always tons of young american girls traveling with their gfs, and then are so awed by the spanish guys and their suave shit, then the guys invite them to the beach and to show them around and end up fucking the girls..

its always the girls with less experience that cheat.. all i know is if ur girl has been with only u and some other guy, and shes telling u she wants to fuck/suck another guy, it'll be fucking easy to get her to cheat

carry on

and i never try hard, ever.. i meet a girl.. i make her laugh.. i act like i dont even acknowledge i want her.. and it works..

im too busy chasing $$ i dont give a shit about girls, and the more u dont give a shit the easier it is to get them.. and im telling u the girls ive ever had cheat on their bfs with me were girls who have been with only 1 guy or 2 guys or married their first love, etc.

It comes down to how jealous type you are.
I see three options: A) Leave her. I would because I wouldn't want a serious relationship with a naughty, likely to cheat girl but that's just me.
B) The 2 of you become swingers
C) Deny her request, be tough about it and live in ignorance, she may cheat on you but for as long as you don't notice it, it's all good. Tell her some story about you being cheated on and how terrible it felt and that you would never want to hear your girlfriend say she did that.. (Just so she wouldn't tell about cheating on you when she is feeling quilty)

of fucking course

Ask AssofClass for advice on this ....

wait wait here a moment
you can do the same, fuck a girl while she is watching
if she has issues with this idea, you can tell her there is no room for one way relationships in your life.

Before you break up, try this at least!

Gloryhole + your cock = win!

cut your emotional ties with this girl, then go explore all your sexual fantasies with her such as threesomes, bondage, whatever and dump her so you can fall in love with a good girl without any regrets

cuckold....

I don't really see the problem here. She wants to suck a different cock. You should be able to negotiate the situation to get some different pussy, and keep your girl.

I think it's great that you have a good enough relationship that she can speak freely to you about these things.

I know some swingers with very good, very solid marriages. Better marriages than most "straight" couples that I know.

Then again, maybe this kind of deal isn't one you are comfortable with. If so, you probably owe it to both yourself and her to let her have her freedom for now.

one big difference though, the girl is honestly telling the guy what she wants instead of just going out and cheating (we'll assume she hasn't done something like that yet). people have different fantasies and i don't see that as so much wanting to be with someone else as wanting to experience different things. lets face it, fucking the same person for 10 years, it gets kind of routine.

lolz, i guess the guy is just fucking around..

No way, are you going to listen to the negative or the postive... its up to you! Every relationship is different & every couple chooses to respect & commit to each other in different ways.

Noway, unless you have been in this situation you are just sayig what you assume... Assumption is always wrong!

It stops when either says it does. No one need go behind any ones back... grow up & enjoy living out fantasies.

Every relationship is different as is most peoples trusts, honor, love, respect & commitment.

Hey, this is actually a great idea... I reckon this guy should make a gloryhole & film the action... we have one & use it most weeks for parties & camshows.

Ours is more for business than fantasy, but it all begins somewhere :2 cents:

I wouldnt have said Jon got this right but can or could be on the right lines if either partner is not commited to the relationship in the same level.

A fantasy is great to enjoy, for real, again, only if the relationship is stable. Real life adventures dont always have the same buzz as the fantasy was.

Its down to the individual couple, the confidence & closeness between them to enjoy fantasies & allow the each other to enjoy that little bit more!

If both partners trust each other, feel equal to one another & love each other with commitment & dedicated respect, then there's no harm to the relationship. You're taking the step to entertaining the mind in a real life situation. If fun as sex should be!

The only harm comes, is when the woman or man become, immature, jealous or envious over on another. It doesnt take a fantasy to make these feelings occur!

Im here :thumbsup

What comes around goes around. In an equal relationship, if you can do it, so can they... which in opposite, ask yourself, would you like to have the similar fun & can you be trusted to enjoy this. If you can, then they can.....

I say go for it, but only if you are confident of yourself & your relationship :2 cents:

there's 3 things no one else touches - my car, my laptop, my girlfriend. in that order.

let her fuck a fellow gfyer and then share your review :P

http://www.gofuckyourself.com/showpo...2&postcount=47


Not everyone is wired to be a swinger. Some try and it works great and they can do it, others try it and it ruins the relationship. If you have doubts it's best to just not try.

I am way too jealous of a person to let someone I'm dating fuck someone else whether male of female. I know that now, but I had to try first. And I have ONLY dated strippers since I was 21. I don't mind what they do at work, I wouldn't mind dating a girl that does solo webcam, solo porn or is a stripper, but if they're getting another cock in them for work or in their personal life, that's just something I can't live with.

My hat is off to those who can, but personally it's just not something I can live with.

So yes, I have been in a similar situation - I was even a willing participant in it but things go wrong.

That would make the cheating much more degrading for the guy :1orglaugh...

Now we know what 'fuzzylogic' means :uhoh ... :disgust

This thread is useless without pictures.

weird i came across this thread. last night went out to the club, had a few drinks, ran into this chick, hit it off, next thing you know i was in her car and she was sucking me off ... weird thing is during the bj i looked over at the car beside us and there was this dude staring at us with a weird look on his face, his lip twitching ... it was too weird i didn't even finish.

Ask her what you get in return.

If she gets pissed or jealous then kick her to the curb.

Donny???

add my desktops and my phone to that list :)

I used to love banging hot older wives in this situation.

All the guys were closet homos if you ask me and they all had little dicks.

And yeah...do a search on Donny and see how that turned out. :1orglaugh

yes... break up with her now.. u have the upper hand..
bcos she will eventually do it.. its ur call.
when u break it up, she will want to come back.. dont get back with her.
just move on & find someone else.
take this advice and u wont have regrets.

Perhaps you have not noticed the high divorce rate in this country.

1. There are exceptions to every rule.
2. Talk to me in another 10.

I take it you upgraded from the car you used to have in your avatar. :upsidedow

:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh:1orglaugh

I've had a great time with a few of those kinda babes ... and yeah, a nice car and back to my estate and her panties are off ... and your at work thinking she's out with the girls hahahahahahahahahahah

If she is so dedicated to being a whore you might as well at least benefit financially and pimp her out. :2 cents:

If she is being open with you. She isnt looking to cheat if she was she wouldnt be talking about it. You probably should break up because now you will be second guessing this poor girl.

Tony, don't you see that type of thinking is sensible, and therefore has no place in this thread?

Ask Donny how it worked out for him.

It's funny how these type scenarios usually have a lot of similarities. You just summed up a situation, for the most part, I had about 10 years ago with my current GF at the time and a former ex GF we both knew. Threesomes, regardless of how they are mixed up, never end up well with someone you have feelings for. It was kick ass while it lasted but in the end it was a total crash and burn.

when you're picking the guy, make sure they have a small weener, and also remember that if you kiss her after she blows him, then you just blew him too!

if she wants to blow another dude, then she's gonna do it with or without you.

may as well keep her around for the sex, make some home videos to keep for memory, and eventually move on, but on good terms so you can make a booty call of it at 3am on a random thursday night.

Thank you for the breakdown clarity.
If I go for option #2 then the relationship changes. From my personal experience, couples that open their sexual relationship to include other people do not last long. But at least I could have fun with option #2 so long as I change my perspective of my current relationship to see it how it is: a horny girl who wants to sample more of the menu.

Good advice :thumbsup
But I will take it slow to make sure it becomes clear what road she is destined to travel. It can either be a road of thrills or one of loving fantasy. Remember, she communicated to me!

1. Post her pic.

2. Are you still accepting volunteers?

I recommend deciding how you feel about it and not going on what random people on GFY tell you. Would it turn you on to do what she wants? Would it piss you off? Only you know how you feel.

i drive a Porsche, why the hell should i want to upgrade to anything else? :winkwink:

but this is about principle, not about how much something has cost :)

or do you hand out your Harleys to everyone who asks you?

DWB's opinion on this matter will be conclusive...

and btw - it was a joke. my girlfriend comes first of course :winkwink:

punch that bitch in the face for even asking such a dumb question

Quoted for truth.

If she is young she doesn't know what she wants, if she is a girl she doesn't know what she wants. Cut the relationship bs and have some fun, if you really are in love you'll come back together at some point.

Your girlfriend sounds like a chick with a big sexual drive. Maybe she is a nymphomaniac, or something.

If it bugs you "DON'T DO IT!!!"
If you're gonna think she's a whore etc.... yadda, yadda. "DON'T DO IT!!!"
If you are really open minded. If you think it'll be interesting and you can handle it, you may open up a whole new world especially when you get to fuck all the girls you want. >;-)) and she can't say shit about it!!!!! Just sayin'...............