Come on, do you really need an answer to the question, "My girlfriend wants to cheat on me. Should I say it's ok?"

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It pretty much comes down to 2 things for him. Either he is cool with it and they go the swinger route and abide by mutual rules and understanding... which he doesn't sound cool with it so that likely wont work.

Or he really don't give a fuck about the girl, doesn't want a relationship with her and just fucks her when she is with him and could give a shit what she does on her own time. Which he sounds like he cares about her a lot so I don't think that is an option either.

So basically, he doesn't have any options. Cut bait man and run.

The high divorce rate has nothing to do with people under 25 getting married. It's people getting married too quick (hardly know each other) or for the wrong reasons (like getting pregnant) at any age. I know people who have been married and divorced 3-4 times in their lifetime and most if not all times they were older than 25 when it happened.

You are out of touch old man.

Even if you let her do it, it's not like its gonna be a one time thing. She's gonna want to suck another guys dick again and again, then she's gonna want to fuck another guy while you watch, etc.

Just cut and run man. It's gonna go downhill from here and now you have the upper hand.

I don't agree with that at least not 9 out of 10 times. If the girl makes a point of asking her BF if it is ok for her to suck cock and she wants him to pick out the guy and watch, she has strong sexual desires to do so. It's not a random thought or something she was just curious about and he says no and she is like ok and never thinks of it again?? no way that is the case.

If they were married, had kids, etc... maybe she could bury it and be ok not doing it, but a "girl friend" likely isn't going to have that much control, or care enough not to let her desires get in the way. Not to mention the problems, suspicions he will now have, the resentment and temptation she will have etc... it wont work. How many times a girl "asks" something where in actuality it was only a "question" if the guy agreed to it. Chances are she is going to do this one way or the other.

Try and make up better stories. You are full of shit. :2 cents:

you mean you don't know at least one person who has been married and divorced several times? I bet more than 1/2 the people here from the US knows someone like that. Not making up any stories. You are so out of touch it's not funny.

I honestly don't know why are you still with her? She want's to suck another dude and you call her "my girl". Well I have news for you bro... she's not just yours. Well maybe she is now but not for long.

I have never been involved in a swinging lifestyle. The closes I have gotten to it are friends who had drug-fueled orgies that only cause drama and heartache. I am not a kid anymore. I dont want drama in my life.

Is it possible to have an open relationship that is drama-free?

get her a sex change and see if she can suck her own dick.

Find yourself a nice wholesome and normal girl that like to put pepsi 2 liter's in her butt and settle down :)

You say she loves you? A girl that wants to suck and fuck other guys doesn't love you.

Dump that hoe!

I think AnalHobbit should write a tutorial about this subject.

3 pages off of a troll post?

Conclusion:
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so the same would apply when a guy wants a threesome with his girlfriend, right?

messed up. dump the bitch unless your into this stuff.

you should ask her if she would be ok if you sucked the guys cock and she watched.

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You guys are too young. You can't let her suck some guys dick and you can't trust her to not do it behind your back, because she will.

Start dating other women, keep the current one around for sex, cooking, good times..etc. Avoid jealousy and feelings if you can. Dating other women will smooth the transition. :2 cents::2 cents:

I'm confused by a lot of the replies in this thread, most people seem to be reacting as if the OP isn't happy with his GF sucking someone else off but it sounds like he has a Cuckold complex and is willing to play along. He's not saying that he thinks his GF is going to cheat behind his back but right there in front of him!

Its not my cup of tea but swings and round-a-bouts and all that!

I stopped reading after "My girl has had only one other man besides me. She is young and in college. "

Is this a college or a monastery, an all girl college or are you just that gullable?

Do you act this stupid on purpose or it it natural?

Sorry man I feel for you. Good thing is you both seem to have a healthy relationship where she feels comfortable to tell you that she is interested in other men. Sexual or not you need to feel comfortable about moving forward with this.

How do you feel about seeing her with other guy? I can't speak for women, but we men are territorial and possessive species , you will eventually start to feel neglected and things will begin to crack.

Believe me this will be not one time fantasy. But again each case is unique.

Find another girl. That's how you manage it.

hit me up on icq :1orglaugh

you are too funny, you should take your comedy act on the road. I don't know where you come up with this material.

Yeah... great idea.

Remember how Donny had the same idea with Belinda? Look how that turned out.

If she is serious about acting out her sexual fantasies with others out of your relationship get rid of her. She might end up giving you an STD too.

I never shared my toys as a kid, so as an adult there is no way I am sharing my woman.

I'd just dump her and find another girl.

if she wants that means it already happened but shes making it official.. do the same with her.. hang out with other girls cause you've been cheated already

There are some dumb motherfuckers in this thread. :1orglaugh

lol u guys are funny.. its simple, dump the girl

like i said, ive fucked a lot of girls LIKE YOURS.. the girl wants to experience some cock, shes too sheltered.. sooner or later she'll fuck another guy behind ur back

like i said Before, i meet girls like yours everytime and whenever a girl tells me oh ive only had one bf, i know my chances of fucking her are 90%

not saying every girl that has not experienced more than 1 or 2 cocks is a cheater.. im just saying that a girl who has experienced one cock AND IS telling u that she wants to experience more is a guaranteed cheater.. send her over to my town for a weekend and i bet i'll fuck the shit out of her.lol its too easy

and baddog is kinda right, ppl need to quit getting married earlier.. u got the rest of ur lives why the fuck would u do it at 20-25.. most ppl dont even know what they want then..

I know for sure the type of girls i wanted at 18 are not the type i want now at 25yrs old.. so if i married my high school sweetheart we would have gotten a divorce by now..

at a young age u care about hot girls, great sex, etc.. when u get older i think u start caring about reliability, motherhood skills, etc

wow, some opinions here... you'd think that for people dealing with morally questionable content (for bourgeois society standards) people would be more open minded, but guess many are as rigid as a Lutheran pastor.

First thing first: why most people here thinks it's OK to fuck any random girl, but that girl hasn't the same right as you? Just FYI, the more chauvinist you go, the more you'll be cheated. News flash.

Now, to the OP: your first mistake is to ask for opinions in this board. Or any other board. It seems you have a healthy relationship with your girl and she trusts you enough to be open about her fantasies. I won't tell you to let her do that or to let her not. By principle, I'm opposed to the whole idea of a person belonging to me, and be assured that she'll do what she want anyway at some point. Maybe even backing up, sometimes fantasies are cool as long as they're just fantasies, when they turn real many people gets scared.

So I'd tell you to just talk to her. Find a comfort zone where you both trust the decision you make is the best for both of you, whether she goes with another man or if she understands why that situation is uncomfortable for you. If needed, talk to a psychologist o find professional advice. Remember, your happiness, your life, your relationship is way too important to trust other people you don't even know face to face (even mine). Do the right, smart thing. Maybe you'll discover her fantasy gives a boost to your relationship. Maybe she'll understand why her fantasy should be kept strictly as that.

But whatever you do, be as firm, calm and objective as possible, but don't treat her as a belonging: 99% chances you'll end sad, alone and hating the world wishing you could turn back history.

lmao we both know that girls who like masculine men would be so turned off by that. Now, asking her to pick out a girl for me to fuck while she watched is only even. But trying to get even with her is childish and will serve no end except hasten the end.

I think you are the only one who picked up on my willingness to explore this... But cuckold, no.. I dont want to be walked over or taken advantage of.

I do want to learn, however, and I have never been in a situation like this.

I have been in a situation with a girl who grew distance and angry with me and wanted to see other people. But that is not what is happening here. We still have a great deal of closeness and intimacy, but she wants the porn fantasy. It's a contradiction!

My kink is not cuckold but voyeurism and exhibitionism. I enjoy watching people have sex in person. I enjoy having sex with others watching me.

Can I take advantage of this girl to satisfy my kinks and hers yet still keep the relationship real, honest and intimate? According to most the replies, no.

Thank you.

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What I learned from this thread is not that people here are closed-minded, but rather guys do not want a girl dominating them and taking advantage of them. It may appear the girl wants to see how far she can push me, how far she can abuse me, and how far her leash is. Because I am in the relationship I do not see that, but maybe that is whats really going on. Maybe she is trying to gain power over me.

In that case, it is wise, as one person posted, to keep cash and keys in a tight pocket.

As the Asian guy said on the first page, I have to gain power back over, dominate her with my erection her so she becomes cock crazy for only me.

Girls are just like guys. The guys in this thread talking shit dream of the day their woman wants them to fuck another girl but talk shit if it's the other direction. I think porn attracts a lot of insecure, nerdy shitheads and you're seeing the results of that.

Just roll the dice and see what fucking happens. Try something new. If shit goes wrong, walk it off and find a new bitch. Odds are the relationship isn't going to last forever anyhow. :2 cents:

Jewcat says something right on here for once lol.

It seems most ppl on this forum can't comprehend your girl's fetish so they don't understand it and they over react.

It's simple, if this is her fetish and your into to it too, than go ahead with it. If you think you will not get jealous vise versa, should be pretty cool for you guys.

Out of all the ppl on here knocking this, you telling me you never ran a train on a girl before? Basically the same kind of shit, just replace random chick with your spouse. I am actually surprised by most of the answers on this thread.

We work in the porn biz, discussions on different niches and fetishes is business as usual imo.

wtf are you talking about? i'm always right...

well one thing is for sure, your usually funny :) even if u dont say something funny, ur avatar is the lulz

oh no he didn't!!!!
lmao

From what movie is that? I need to see it!

yeah, i guess what a lot of the guys here are saying here to the ladies is that if your guy wants a threesome, you better dump him because he has either already cheated or will at some point.

Dont forget your camera :)