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TurboAngel · 07-13-2011, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by punker barbie

Is her house messy? it could be in her mind thats clean.

She OCD about her house not a thing out of place. She has always been that way. If I had known I would have sent the dogs to camp. She has watched the dogs before and I didn't come home to a mess.

MaDalton · 07-13-2011, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

LOL so you paid her to stay at your house and you also paid another person to walk the dog?

Please send me money, I'll walk your dog too. I'm cheap.

you just want to save battery power..

Jman · 07-13-2011, 02:19 PM

Is she hot... if so pimp her out to get your money back ;)

JFK · 07-13-2011, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Crak_JMan

Is she hot... if so pimp her out to get your money back ;)

hot or not , it's GFY, there will be takers eighter way

kronic · 07-13-2011, 04:55 PM

Bide your time. Pack your sheets and comforter away. Don't let on that anything has happened. Thank her profusely and let her know anytime she needs you to reciprocate the favour, you'll be more than happy to help her out.

If and when that time comes, she'll surely leave you some way to contact her so, it's time to return the favour. Call her constantly with shit similar to what she bothered you with. While she's away, remove the bedding from HER bed and replace it with the shit she left on your bed. Take a replacement set of hers that you like, either similarly priced or even more expensive as compensation for paying her and her not doing the job.

You say she's OCD about her place? Be sure to leave it a disaster. Unwashed dishes, garbage not thrown out, a couple of used condoms strategically placed. You get the idea.

The choice to leave her a note or not explaining your actions is up to you. If you don't, when she calls to give you shit, say something along these lines..."I'm so sorry. I wasn't sure how to approach you when you did this to my house last time...remember? Now I'll know how to handle it better next time. Thank you. I love my new bed set by the way. Thanks again."

Chances are you'll never hear from her again.

Spunky · 07-13-2011, 05:00 PM

Doesn't sound like much of a friend,ask her to pay for it but you'll probably won't get money back

Agent 488 · 07-13-2011, 05:06 PM

your friend feels very bad about the situation.

bdld · 07-13-2011, 05:27 PM

white trash problems.

astronaut x · 07-13-2011, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by TurboAngel

Ok somtimes I get the best advice on GFY so here it goes......

I went on vacation for a week up to Philly. I gave my "friend" of 20 years $350 to come over and watch my dogs, she stayed at my house as her air conditioner isn't working. I left on Friday and was going to come back the next Friday on Monday she calls and asks what time on Tuesday was a coming home I tell her that I wasn't going to be home till Friday. Every day she called and bugs the shit out of me so I left on Thursday.

Now I get home and couldn't even get into my house as the storm door was locked, I was pissed! She get's up, granted it was only 11:30 and lets me in. My house is fucking trashed I mean trashed. She goes home as I couldn't say a word to her.

I then go to wash the sheets on my bed only to fined a huge burn hole in my bed, sheets and a nice quilt. I haven't even been able to talk to her as I have no clue what to say.I did see her 2 days later to get the key, I was so mad I didn't say a word.

What do I say to her or should I just never talk to her? She keeps calling and I haven't picked up the phone. Thanks GFY for helping a girl out!

find better friends.

oh, and get to know them first.

garce · 07-13-2011, 05:30 PM

Next time you want someone to watch your dogs while you're on vacation, hire a professional.

TurboAngel · 07-14-2011, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by garce

Next time you want someone to watch your dogs while you're on vacation, hire a professional.

Trust me I will have them with me or they will be at camp. This isn't the 1st time she has watched them. I never had any probs with her the other 4 times so I didn't think this time would have been a prob.

V_RocKs · 07-14-2011, 12:16 PM

You need new friends!

CDSmith · 07-14-2011, 12:49 PM

You've lost what you thought was a friend. You're feeling blue. I can relate. It's close enough to the weekend though...

Time to drink.

brentbacardi · 07-14-2011, 12:54 PM

The reason you have a friend watch your dog is to save money... if you were going to pay her 350 then you should have checked your dog into a "doggie hotel" ... your dog would have had a better time and would have gotten shampooed in the process for when you picked your dog back up... other than that... you don't need someone to watch your house.

DiF0r · 07-14-2011, 12:58 PM

gotta love friends like this.. So did she alone make all that mess at your house or did she even invite some friends over

CurrentlySober · 07-14-2011, 01:00 PM

Burn her fucking house down !

That will teach the bitch a lesson !

Mr Pheer · 07-14-2011, 01:03 PM

I treat my friend's property better than I treat my own property. I would expect no less from them. What she did is absolutely a deal breaker.

Oracle Porn · 07-15-2011, 02:57 AM

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Originally Posted by charlieb

http://www.doggiespa.com/

looks like a fucking jail cell

MrMaxwell · 07-15-2011, 02:10 PM

If one of my "friends" did that, I would drive my car over their face.

mountainmiester · 07-15-2011, 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr Pheer

I treat my friend's property better than I treat my own property. I would expect no less from them. What she did is absolutely a deal breaker.

In most states, there are laws that say if you borrow something from someone, you are required to take better care of it then they do themselves. I'd get her on Judge Judy!

Bull Smoke · 07-15-2011, 07:06 PM

How many dogs you have? Why didn't you board them for the week?

Matt 26z · 07-16-2011, 12:06 AM

Have you considered the possibility that she invited someone over and this other person made the mess and burned your bed?

PornStarToys · 07-16-2011, 12:26 AM

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Originally Posted by CurrentlySober

Burn her fucking house down !

That will teach the bitch a lesson !

SleazyDream · 07-16-2011, 01:01 AM

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Originally Posted by pornopete

You had to pay a friend of 20 years $350 to walk your dogs? Sounds like you need some real friends.

probably the best statement here. If you lived closer, I'd have taken in your dog and we barley know each other.

Advise, CHANGE YOUR LOCKS, NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!

MrMaxwell · 07-16-2011, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

probably the best statement here. If you lived closer, I'd have taken in your dog and we barley know each other.

Advise, CHANGE YOUR LOCKS, NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!

If you tried to do me a favor, I'd have you arrested for threatening me.

Major (Tom) · 07-16-2011, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by TurboAngel

Ok somtimes I get the best advice on GFY so here it goes......

I went on vacation for a week up to Philly. I gave my "friend" of 20 years $350 to come over and watch my dogs, she stayed at my house as her air conditioner isn't working. I left on Friday and was going to come back the next Friday on Monday she calls and asks what time on Tuesday was a coming home I tell her that I wasn't going to be home till Friday. Every day she called and bugs the shit out of me so I left on Thursday.

Now I get home and couldn't even get into my house as the storm door was locked, I was pissed! She get's up, granted it was only 11:30 and lets me in. My house is fucking trashed I mean trashed. She goes home as I couldn't say a word to her.

I then go to wash the sheets on my bed only to fined a huge burn hole in my bed, sheets and a nice quilt. I haven't even been able to talk to her as I have no clue what to say.I did see her 2 days later to get the key, I was so mad I didn't say a word.

What do I say to her or should I just never talk to her? She keeps calling and I haven't picked up the phone. Thanks GFY for helping a girl out!

1. Is she a stripper? This sounds like a stripper's modus operandi.
2. Cut her out of your life. This is the core of her being. Get rid of the looser.
ds

brassmonkey · 07-16-2011, 04:12 PM

get real revenge pillow fight her topless on cam

ill be the referee

Bill8 · 07-16-2011, 04:21 PM

There's nothing you can or should do, other than pull away from that friend to whatever extent you feel is warranted.

All these tough characters here on gfy don't know much about life, their advice is worthless.

You took a chance on a friend, you learned something. Not all friends can be trusted with your stuff or your responsibilities, you learned that this friend can't.

Ultimately care of your stuff is your responsibility. Involving friends is your personal economy is always risky.

Take your lesson like an adult, and make other plans next time.

raymor · 07-16-2011, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by TurboAngel

Trust me I will have them with me or they will be at camp. This isn't the 1st time she has watched them. I never had any probs with her the other 4 times so I didn't think this time would have been a prob.

You also said she's OCD about cleanliness.
If this is 100% completely out of character for her, I wonder she has a teenage son or daughter she might have sent over there or something.
I've found that people don't generally change radically overnight, unless of course.she just got hooked on drugs.
Given your previous experience and how long you've known her, I think it makes sense to see what she has to say. Other than that, try not to waste TOO much energy on anger. There is probably not much to be done about it, so the sooner you can let go and move on to more pleasant things the better.

18teens · 07-16-2011, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Imortyl Pussycat

call her and let her know that you hadn't been able to compose yourself after seeing the state of your place or you would have talked to her sooner. tell her you were shocked and mortified at the condition of the place and let her know what you found. ask her to explain herself and then say nothing more so she is forced to speak. let her ramble on or hear her say "what do you mean?". tell her it was totally unacceptable and a good friend would never dream of trashing your place. move her to the aquaintence category after the call. that's what i would do anyway

Best advice

BradBangs · 07-16-2011, 06:23 PM

Classics from the turbo family.

You should be thankful she didn't blow up your home with her little methlab in the kitchen.

GAMEFINEST · 07-16-2011, 07:07 PM

You should have call one of the GFYS we would have hooked you up

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07-13-2011, 04:55 PM	#55
kronic Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 964	I'm big on object lessons so... Bide your time. Pack your sheets and comforter away. Don't let on that anything has happened. Thank her profusely and let her know anytime she needs you to reciprocate the favour, you'll be more than happy to help her out. If and when that time comes, she'll surely leave you some way to contact her so, it's time to return the favour. Call her constantly with shit similar to what she bothered you with. While she's away, remove the bedding from HER bed and replace it with the shit she left on your bed. Take a replacement set of hers that you like, either similarly priced or even more expensive as compensation for paying her and her not doing the job. You say she's OCD about her place? Be sure to leave it a disaster. Unwashed dishes, garbage not thrown out, a couple of used condoms strategically placed. You get the idea. The choice to leave her a note or not explaining your actions is up to you. If you don't, when she calls to give you shit, say something along these lines..."I'm so sorry. I wasn't sure how to approach you when you did this to my house last time...remember? Now I'll know how to handle it better next time. Thank you. I love my new bed set by the way. Thanks again." Chances are you'll never hear from her again.

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07-16-2011, 04:21 PM	#78
Bill8 Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 1,901	There's nothing you can or should do, other than pull away from that friend to whatever extent you feel is warranted. All these tough characters here on gfy don't know much about life, their advice is worthless. You took a chance on a friend, you learned something. Not all friends can be trusted with your stuff or your responsibilities, you learned that this friend can't. Ultimately care of your stuff is your responsibility. Involving friends is your personal economy is always risky. Take your lesson like an adult, and make other plans next time.

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