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raymor · 11-07-2011, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by munki

Give him a hug... nuff said.

Qft.

One thing to avoid, perhaps, is identifying him too much by his sexuality, either positively or negatively. I think being too "supportive" of your gay son could be almost as damaging as being real negative about your gay son. Instead, just talk to your son, not your "gay son".

He may being hanging out with people, reading literature, etc. that really focuses on "the gay lifestyle", "gay issues", etc., which separates a person from the rest of society by focusing on, and even inventing, differences. He's your son, he's a man, and a pre-med student, not your gay son, a gay man, and a gay student.

uno · 11-07-2011, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by marlboroack

Don't call him a fag and disown him and stop loving him.. Gay people are cool in my opinion. No homo.

Anyone who says "no homo" is clearly gay. I've never heard a more gay phrase in my life.

harvey · 11-07-2011, 11:11 PM

cykoe6 · 11-07-2011, 11:16 PM

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Originally Posted by tony286

tell him you love him.

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Originally Posted by munki

Give him a hug... nuff said.

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Originally Posted by anexsia

As a mother, you should always support your son and be there for him...so if he's gay, respect his lifestyle no matter what.

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Originally Posted by epitome

You love him, support him and will always be there for him just as you always have been. Leave it at that unless he wants more.

Don't start prying. He will reveal more when he is comfortable enough.

Signed,
A Gay Son

This is all very good advice.

uno · 11-07-2011, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by SilentKnight

Has he enrolled in hairdressing school or interior design yet?

If he has, can you send him to my condo to redecorate and repaint?

Sarah_Jayne · 11-08-2011, 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ

You lost me on your post? Why should his father have to "prove" anything differently because his son made a lifestyle choice? Meaning, is it not a bit prejudiced to assume he'd treat his own son differently? Besides, most parents know their kids gay before the kid does.

It isn't specific to being gay (sort of hate the word 'choice' in association with sexuality but okay) but in this case, I meant that when parents say that sort of thing to a child that has come out that they then need to back it up and be the supportive parent they need. Certainly that is not exclusive to being the parents of an LGBT child but it the insecurity that often comes with the coming out period is something that does indeed involve the need for a different set of parenting skills.

epitome · 11-08-2011, 12:04 AM

Your son may have been fucking around on Facebook and now his Mom will always think he likes cock.

Does he wear tight Hollister shirts with shell necklaces? Usually a good indicator.

porno jew · 11-08-2011, 12:06 AM

solution = fixing cars, playing sports and big game hunting. gay problem solved.

epitome · 11-08-2011, 12:06 AM

Oh shit he's still 18.

PM me a picture and I may make him my next project. Mine is 22 now and I like to trade up before they hit five years of wear and tear.

epitome · 11-08-2011, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by porno jew

solution = fixing cars, playing sports and big game hunting. gay problem solved.

Unless he does that in tight Hollister shirts, shell necklaces and a trucker hat. That is a country gay.

porno jew · 11-08-2011, 12:12 AM

donny long wore shell necklaces and he wasn't gay.

porno jew · 11-08-2011, 12:17 AM

epitome · 11-08-2011, 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by porno jew

donny long wore shell necklaces and he wasn't gay.

Donny Long is the only person that believed he wasn't gay.

Milfer · 11-08-2011, 12:55 AM

Never be bias on the basis of his sexuality. Just treat him and love him as you would if he was an straight.

Thomas007 · 11-08-2011, 03:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Milfer

Never be bias on the basis of his sexuality. Just treat him and love him as you would if he was an straight.

I second that, and be nice to his boyfriends.

TubeSubmitters · 11-08-2011, 03:24 AM

Maybe cause his father is a tranny?

Jel · 11-08-2011, 03:39 AM

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Emil · 11-08-2011, 03:39 AM

Ask him if he likes bears or twinks.

tabasco · 11-08-2011, 03:43 AM

it's just a phase, he'll grow out of it

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John-ACWM · 11-08-2011, 04:03 AM

Support him, he needs his family.

Dirty F · 11-08-2011, 04:23 AM

Buy him a fruitcake.

Dirty F · 11-08-2011, 04:26 AM

Lykos · 11-08-2011, 04:52 AM

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Originally Posted by _Richard_

Fabien · 11-08-2011, 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Sabby

he doesnt look like me.

He's tall, dark, handsome, and smart,

Im short, blonde, cute, and dumb.

Sorry for the good-looking part I know that makes u feel inferrior and thus u must lash out at us. would it make u feel better if I told u just farted and it smelled bad???

Sabby

WELL I GUESS I LOVE short, blonde, cute and dumb girls

Seriously, you ain't sure. He probably did this to shock or have fun. If not then, there's nothing you can do about it. Around 2% of the population are gay.
Reminds me of a shirt i saw on the street: "I'm gay, get over it"

seeandsee · 11-08-2011, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Jarmusch

hahahaha hahahahha

scottybuzz · 11-08-2011, 05:42 AM

as a mother you should have worked it out by age 11-12 when the signs first start showing.

NetHorse · 11-08-2011, 05:43 AM

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Originally Posted by stocktrader23

Dirty liberal scum.

Fucking hilarious.

I wouldn't know what to say either, possibly because there isn't anything to say.

BlackCrayon · 11-08-2011, 07:49 AM

get him a hooker just to be sure.

Chosen · 11-08-2011, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Jarmusch

If you're not homophobic, then you don't have to say anything.

Chosen · 11-08-2011, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Jarmusch

LMAO

WTFBucks · 11-08-2011, 08:00 AM

Just act like nothing special has happened. Cause nothing has changed really except you know now he likes cock

Sarah_Jayne · 11-08-2011, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Jesus H Christ

See this is where/how it gets complicated. The son made a "choice" to tell his parents he's gay. That's where I'm lost because they might not approve/understand why he's gay or like it, but how could a true parent, just stop loving their child or not provide endless ancillary support, regardless?

Your post reads odd, like gay people who newly "come out" must have some type of handicap and need constant coddling like a newborn? If I had a kid and he said dad, I'm gay. I'd say so, why didn't you tell me earlier? Now go park the lawnmower and rearrange/organize my workbench. That's it.

Anyway, reading between the lines I understand your gay and feel you were born that way. What bugs me is how gay people politicize this to enforce straight people to be tolerant and understand as if you were handicap due to your root sexual preference.

I also understand public gay events to get people to "come out", but I just can't grasp the reason why people need this type of attention when these resources/events can better/identify the root cause of why people truly "hate" homosexuals.

I don't doubt for a second people are born gay as this is not the core cause of the hatred. It's the collateral damage caused by gay people who were born/made gay, who hate being gay. They'll live a lie to protect this secret at all costs even if it destroys lives, as they run the risk of destroying their own lives/families/careers/reputations.

Instead of helping, openly gay people enable them, causing a a nonstop cycle of destruction that creates even more hatred, as your main focus it to brand breeders, bigots if called anything derogatory about a homosexual preference.

In short, I find fanatical openly gay people to be hypocritical and purely self absorbed.

Or it is the case that any child that is going through anything that takes that amount of courage needs a support network. In this case, it happens to be because they came out as being gay. In any number of situations, there are parents who say they love and support their kids but then aren't actually backing those words up with that love and support. That is what I was saying. It could be a career choice, it could be dying their hair pink, whatever. In this case, it is being gay.

I find the term 'fanatical openly gay' fairly ridiculous. How many straight people do you know that are 'fanatical openly straight' and that is just fine?

Yeah, the kid made a choice - though it looks like in this case he was discovered rather than made the choice - and a brave one at that. Congrats to him.

TurboAngel · 11-08-2011, 11:51 AM

There's some good advice here.

DarkJedi · 11-08-2011, 12:17 PM

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harvey · 11-08-2011, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by DarkJedi

Teach him everything you know about sucking cawk.

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Evil Chris · 11-08-2011, 01:39 PM

Where does the "son I am disappoint" come from... it's funny.

18teens · 11-08-2011, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Sabby

I just got hit with this. He turns 19 in jan.

What do you say or not say. Im not homophobic. I just dont know what to say.

Sabby

Don't change anything about what you would normally say or not say. In the grand scheme of things, nothing has changed. He's still your son and you still love him no matter what.

NewNick · 11-08-2011, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by 18teens

Don't change anything about what you would normally say or not say. In the grand scheme of things, nothing has changed. He's still your son and you still love him no matter what.

and the cawk ?

BlackCrayon · 11-09-2011, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Evil Chris

Where does the "son I am disappoint" come from... it's funny.

i'd like to know how did all those drawings..troll guy, forever alone, u no wanna guy.. etc.

porno jew · 11-09-2011, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

i'd like to know how did all those drawings..troll guy, forever alone, u no wanna guy.. etc.

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epitome · 11-09-2011, 06:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Fabien

WELL I GUESS I LOVE short, blonde, cute and dumb girls

Seriously, you ain't sure. He probably did this to shock or have fun. If not then, there's nothing you can do about it. Around 2% of the population are gay.
Reminds me of a shirt i saw on the street: "I'm gay, get over it"

2%? At the very least, 10% confirmed, many suspect closer to 30% if you factor in the people who are bi.

pornmasta · 11-09-2011, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Sabby

I just got hit with this. He turns 19 in jan.

What do you say or not say. Im not homophobic. I just dont know what to say.

Sabby

Now tell him that you work in porn

topwebmodels_chris · 11-09-2011, 06:54 PM

He is still your son regardless of his gender preferences. You should be understanding and supportive. Dont try to change his mind because he has already made that decision on his own.

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nakeddutch · 11-09-2011, 10:09 PM

It is interesting ... Hmmm... did he experience a lot of "gay dreams" ?

you may want to try to look into the thought - dream - aspect of this to better help you understand his lifestyle....

A good way is to "consciously dream" (that is, control what you dream to get 'answers' to questions you may have about this lifestyle)

Example: (how to do this) : you have to 'say out loud' your question, then hit the sack; and await a reply tonight via sleep.

like so:

(say out loud) "I wish to know the truth, how does my son's dreams work into this new lifestyle?"

then go to sleep and write down your reply when you wake up.

You are now doing 'spirit work' or dream work!

Cheers!

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