Best Legit Online Dating Site?

[The Porn Nerd]

Not looking for hookups or adult but actual dating sites for people who want to meet someone. I'm looking for a new GF and guess what I see on OK Cupid (the only site I've checked out so far)? Fugly fatties and scary humanoid things. LOL I mean seriously, I should post some of these "women" on GFY so you can all see how butt ugly these creatures are. Wow. I give them credit for even trying but OMG scary!

Sure there's about 3% who I would consider "fuckable" on there but I'm guessing the semi-attractive ones get 10k emails daily (and most of them along the lines of "Wanna fuck?" judging by how often girls say in their profiles 'DO NOT EMAIL ME FOR HOOKUPS").

So free is out - you get what you pay for - but what about paid sites like Match? E Harmony? Christian Mingle? (I would love to get some sin into those uptight Christian hotties. I mean, the sex-crazed Catholic girl must be in there somewhere, right?)

So anyone have any real experience with online dating sites? Real legitimate ones. I have extremely limited experience with online dating but judging so far...it's a freakshow.

[Meloman]

One of my old coworkers met his wife on Amigos.com.

[CPA-Rush]

good luck finding some nice tight pussies online .

[brassmonkey]

[Rochard]

This is a great story.... As employees we must use our real pictures when creating a profile for any reason (mostly for testing). This ensures we are not "creating fake profiles". Our former VP of sales, a tall German man by the name of Lutz, created a profile to test something and used his own picture. A few days later he logged into the account and discovered someone had contacted him.... They started chatted, met in person, and not too long ago they got married.

[Jel]

Originally Posted by Rochard

This is a great story.... As employees we must use our real pictures when creating a profile for any reason (mostly for testing). This ensures we are not "creating fake profiles". Our former VP of sales, a tall German man by the name of Lutz, created a profile to test something and used his own picture. A few days later he logged into the account and discovered someone had contacted him.... They started chatted, met in person, and not too long ago they got married.

heh, pretty cool

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by Rochard

This is a great story.... As employees we must use our real pictures when creating a profile for any reason (mostly for testing). This ensures we are not "creating fake profiles". Our former VP of sales, a tall German man by the name of Lutz, created a profile to test something and used his own picture. A few days later he logged into the account and discovered someone had contacted him.... They started chatted, met in person, and not too long ago they got married.

Yeah pretty cool! Of course, he is handsome and she is very attractive so not realistic in any way. LOL

I'm telling you man, we use the word 'troll' here on GFY but it has a literal meaning on these dating sites. And if you search for anyone over 35 it gets truly scary. Like a Tim Burton movie only worse.

(This is why I am only searching for 23 year olds with daddy issues now.)

[NALEM]

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

Not looking for hookups or adult but actual dating sites for people who want to meet someone. I'm looking for a new GF and guess what I see on OK Cupid (the only site I've checked out so far)? Fugly fatties and scary humanoid things. LOL I mean seriously, I should post some of these "women" on GFY so you can all see how butt ugly these creatures are. Wow. I give them credit for even trying but OMG scary!

Sure there's about 3% who I would consider "fuckable" on there but I'm guessing the semi-attractive ones get 10k emails daily (and most of them along the lines of "Wanna fuck?" judging by how often girls say in their profiles 'DO NOT EMAIL ME FOR HOOKUPS").

So free is out - you get what you pay for - but what about paid sites like Match? E Harmony? Christian Mingle? (I would love to get some sin into those uptight Christian hotties. I mean, the sex-crazed Catholic girl must be in there somewhere, right?)

So anyone have any real experience with online dating sites? Real legitimate ones. I have extremely limited experience with online dating but judging so far...it's a freakshow.

Send an email to alex AT nalem DOT com
Please refer to this thread. Good luck.

[L-Pink]

Originally Posted by NALEM

Send an email to alex AT nalem DOT com
Please refer to this thread. Good luck.

I'm guessing he's looking for women.

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[MrBottomTooth]

Pof.com for the biggest selection. Or Backpage.com escort listings to save time.

[TrashyGirl]

Tinder (phone)

[adultchatpay]

I was watching NBA yesterday and there was a commercial Farmersonly.com

Farm all the way!

[J. Falcon]

Tinder might be your best bet.

[The Porn Nerd]

Actually I am going to marry (oh the pun!) my ebook idea with online dating sites. What a great opportunity to join a bunch of sites, write snarky reviews, whip up a How To ebook for shmucks and make bank.

And yes, this is why I'm single. LOL

[C H R I S]

Have you tried Farmersonly.com

[candyflip]

I met my girl on Plenty of Fish and my female friends are ALL on Match.com and Tinder.

[candyflip]

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

(This is why I am only searching for 23 year olds with daddy issues now.)

These girls are all on Fetlife.com - again, I speak from experience.

[baggg]

You should check Grindr

[Rochard]

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

I'm telling you man, we use the word 'troll' here on GFY but it has a literal meaning on these dating sites. And if you search for anyone over 35 it gets truly scary. Like a Tim Burton movie only worse.

(This is why I am only searching for 23 year olds with daddy issues now.)

I spend a lot of time on dating sites testing white label designs and what not, and I swear... If wasn't married I would be on every freaking dating site. I have a local friend who just got dropped kicked by his smoking hot wife. He is fifty, grey hair, over weight, flat broke... And he's banging chicks left and right off of dating sites.

[Tom-LifeSelector]

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[MatureKing]

do I have a chance

[Relentless]

GFY.com works well if you want to date liars, losers and riff-raff ;)

[pornmasta]

Try gfy.com: it is "fuck" related.

Who is a woman and is single here ?

[pornmasta]

Originally Posted by Relentless

GFY.com works well if you want to date liars, losers and riff-raff ;)

[Google Expert]

Are you not from SEA? Should be plenty of chinky womens chasing rich white guys.

[KillerK]

Tinder but you will meet ugly fucked up girls on there.

Maybe try match.com or matchmaker.com

[aka123]

Online dating sites, the real ones I mean, tend to have the problem that there are lot of spammers. They post to every chick something like; "You are so beautiful. Blaa..blaa..blaa.." Thus getting women's attention is not that easy as they have "Inbox: 100 new messages today". And most chicks won't make the things further than conversation online. It is fucking work intensive way to "meet" women.

[pornmasta]

It's (was ?) easy to meet people, but i'm so full retard IRL from time to time...

[aka123]

Originally Posted by pornmasta

It's (was ?) easy to meet people, but i'm so full retard IRL from time to time...

If you are retard in a cute way, many chicks don't mind it, but if you are asshole.. well, there are chicks falling in that too, but not the same chicks.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by Rochard

I spend a lot of time on dating sites testing white label designs and what not, and I swear... If wasn't married I would be on every freaking dating site. I have a local friend who just got dropped kicked by his smoking hot wife. He is fifty, grey hair, over weight, flat broke... And he's banging chicks left and right off of dating sites.

Well maybe he can give me some tips. LOL

[JA$ON]

truth is.....

If you are good looking and successful, you will find PLENTY of smart, beautiful women on any of the legit dating sites (match, POF etc) Its no different than going to a bar or club

Its when guys who are 3s expect sites where they can have their pick of 8s and 9s that you get all the shitty reviews on those sites (referring to everyones reviews, not you being a 3, lol)

Just don't expect to "out kick your coverage" and you'll be fine on any of them.

[chaze]

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

Not looking for hookups or adult but actual dating sites for people who want to meet someone. I'm looking for a new GF and guess what I see on OK Cupid (the only site I've checked out so far)? Fugly fatties and scary humanoid things. LOL I mean seriously, I should post some of these "women" on GFY so you can all see how butt ugly these creatures are. Wow. I give them credit for even trying but OMG scary!

Sure there's about 3% who I would consider "fuckable" on there but I'm guessing the semi-attractive ones get 10k emails daily (and most of them along the lines of "Wanna fuck?" judging by how often girls say in their profiles 'DO NOT EMAIL ME FOR HOOKUPS").

So free is out - you get what you pay for - but what about paid sites like Match? E Harmony? Christian Mingle? (I would love to get some sin into those uptight Christian hotties. I mean, the sex-crazed Catholic girl must be in there somewhere, right?)

So anyone have any real experience with online dating sites? Real legitimate ones. I have extremely limited experience with online dating but judging so far...it's a freakshow.

Just stay away from Adult Friend Finder and any site associated with those scammers.

[deltav]

Originally Posted by JA$ON

Just don't expect to "out kick your coverage" and you'll be fine on any of them.

So so many guys do this too. Being confident & not selling yourself short is one thing, but I've known dudes who were just deluded about the type of ladies they should be getting while dismissing the ones actually in their league.

Obvious to everyone else but they refused to see it, then wind up disappointed & bitter, and ultimately blaming women for doing exactly what they were doing - being selective.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by JA$ON

truth is.....

If you are good looking and successful, you will find PLENTY of smart, beautiful women on any of the legit dating sites (match, POF etc) Its no different than going to a bar or club

Its when guys who are 3s expect sites where they can have their pick of 8s and 9s that you get all the shitty reviews on those sites (referring to everyones reviews, not you being a 3, lol)

Just don't expect to "out kick your coverage" and you'll be fine on any of them.

Originally Posted by deltav

So so many guys do this too. Being confident & not selling yourself short is one thing, but I've known dudes who were just deluded about the type of ladies they should be getting while dismissing the ones actually in their league.

Obvious to everyone else but they refused to see it, then wind up disappointed & bitter, and ultimately blaming women for doing exactly what they were doing - being selective.

Both very true! As for me (since I never post my pic online) you'll have to believe me when I say I've dated porn stars, models and actresses. Mostly 7-9's (but don't tell them that, they all thought they were 10's). I would say realistically I'm an 8 (or, in a suit, a 9).

So I am just going with they are all intimidated by my good looks theory as to why I only get butt ugly troglodytes who respond or reach out.

My other strategy is to go total negative. Like you ain't good enough for me bitch prove you are worthy kind of thing. LOL At least the reactions would be fun! Fuck, I gotta get SOME entertainment for my $97, right? LOL

[CPA-Rush]

Originally Posted by deltav

So so many guys do this too. Being confident & not selling yourself short is one thing, but I've known dudes who were just deluded about the type of ladies they should be getting while dismissing the ones actually in their league.

Obvious to everyone else but they refused to see it, then wind up disappointed & bitter, and ultimately blaming women for doing exactly what they were doing - being selective.

total agreement , but hotter girls are brainwashing once they show up.

[Slick]

I'd say don't pay for a dating site and just go for POF.com ? The Leading Free Online Dating Site for Singles & Personals I've met a couple of decent girls off of there and actually right now, I'm engaged to a woman I found on okcupid.com ha ha.

[pornmasta]

Now tell me, what do you answer if women ask you if you are a gigolo ?
I mean, i don't ask them if they are prostitute, it would be offensive, so what would you answer (the answer is "no").
"No, but i make money in the porn business" << lol

[adultchatpay]

It's weird because i know many dating programs here but they don't recommend their own?

[aka123]

Originally Posted by pornmasta

Now tell me, what do you answer if women ask you if you are a gigolo ?

Someone has asked that from you?

I would probably say: "No, why do you ask that?"

[lock]

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[ITraffic]

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

Both very true! As for me (since I never post my pic online) you'll have to believe me when I say I've dated porn stars, models and actresses. Mostly 7-9's (but don't tell them that, they all thought they were 10's). I would say realistically I'm an 8 (or, in a suit, a 9).

So I am just going with they are all intimidated by my good looks theory as to why I only get butt ugly troglodytes who respond or reach out.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by pornmasta

Now tell me, what do you answer if women ask you if you are a gigolo ?
I mean, i don't ask them if they are prostitute, it would be offensive, so what would you answer (the answer is "no").
"No, but i make money in the porn business" << lol

I tell them I make enough money to buy and sell their entire family so STFU and blow me. That usually works.

[pornmasta]

Originally Posted by aka123

Someone has asked that from you?

I would probably say: "No, why do you ask that?"

several times > 3

[johnnyloadproductions]

Originally Posted by The Porn Nerd

I tell them I make enough money to buy and sell their entire family so STFU and blow me. That usually works.

Go to the right country and you can do that with even modest wealth.

[Nicholas FirstMobileCash]

It depends on where you live. When I still lived in Canada, plentyoffish worked fine. obviously lots of crap, but I had a 3 year relationship from that site.

Since coming to Europe, I used Badoo and met my current lady on there. The language barrier keeps me from using local options, but for multi-national, I can attest that both of those work.

I have a lot of friends who use Tinder for both hooking up and LT, but you better have some killer pictures ready.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by johnnyloadproductions

Go to the right country and you can do that with even modest wealth.

Heh, why do you think I spend so much time in Europe?

Originally Posted by Nicholas FirstMobileCash

It depends on where you live. When I still lived in Canada, plentyoffish worked fine. obviously lots of crap, but I had a 3 year relationship from that site.

Since coming to Europe, I used Badoo and met my current lady on there. The language barrier keeps me from using local options, but for multi-national, I can attest that both of those work.

I have a lot of friends who use Tinder for both hooking up and LT, but you better have some killer pictures ready.

Plenty Of Fish scares me. LOL SO MANY whacknuts on there! I will check out Badoo as I am looking for a European girl. Know anyone? LOL

(As for Tinder I stay away exactly for what you said. Maybe if I get some professional shots taken. Selfies ain't gonna cut it there. LOL)

[EliteWebmaster]

Easiest way to find girls.....

[TheSquealer]

There is a member of this forum who is quite the pickup artist. He uses tinder almost exclusively now and I've seen him line up 2-3 girls a day from there and bang a couple a day off there. Obviously, your Facebook profile needs to be in order though as a first step.

[The Porn Nerd]

Originally Posted by TheSquealer

There is a member of this forum who is quite the pickup artist. He uses tinder almost exclusively now and I've seen him line up 2-3 girls a day from there and bang a couple a day off there. Obviously, your Facebook profile needs to be in order though as a first step.

Yeah that's the other thing: no Facebook. The idea of ex-girlfriends or long lost loser friends (who I kicked out of my life for a reason) might track me down. I suppose I should bite the bullet and do it but.....ugh, it's fucking FACEbook man! LOL

[aka123]

Originally Posted by EliteWebmaster

Easiest way to find girls.....

Yes, Hobbit cars are great conversation starters.