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06-29-2017, 09:59 PM | #1 |
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Do you consider EXTREMELY OBESE people Victims of their metabolism?
How much of being FAT is a choice and how much of it is just a product of a genetic LOTTERY?
Is it time we start looking at overweight people as VICTIMS?
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My grandad never came across "metabolism" while he was in a concentration camp in Germany...it must have been pure luck LOL
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make way, very obese guy here...
i would say it's half-half. i was maltreated with the wrong medicines at the age of 3-4 for some issue + nearly all my grandparents died obese so there IS genetics. on the other hand, i can lose weight, it just takes 5x bigger determination for me: some chaps lose weight by halving their pizza dinner. but if i eat only a handful of salad a day and work out like crazy, i lose weight in baby steps. i got it hard on the metabolism department, but i CAN lose weight. no whining here, it's just that some of us fatsos need to try Much harder than Average Joe, but it doesn't mean tha we shouldn't try at all ;) let's just say we've got the difficulty set to Hard while it is Normal for others, but we can beat it, instead of blaming genetics. And who doesn't love to eat? ps: do lowcarb & kettlebell.
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There is no obesity in the countries of the Sahel where famine reigns, whatever the people's metabolism.
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As the resident GFY AUTHORITY on obesity, I can safely say its because we are greedy fucks that eat way too much because we have zero respect for ourselves or others...
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Maybe I'm missing something but "slow metabolism" sounds more like a blessing than a curse. It means that you can eat less and so you would save ton on food over your lifetime. It's kinda like an efficient 40mpg car is better than 20mpg one, everyone would obviously say that a car that burns less energy is better?
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Last night i watched a perfectly spherical mother and her almost spherical son behind me at the grocery store line up. In my basket i haf some nectarines and some yogurt and a small bag of chips for my kids and i to share after dinner. In their basket a 2l bottle of coke a big bag of cookies a bag of chips..carrots which i found funny. Some pastry things i didnt recognize.
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You have to take it on a case by case basis
there are some people who are just lazy and eat to much some people have an underlining medical condition some people eat as a coping mechanism because they were sexually abused etc........
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do you consider putting 10 gallons of gas into your car filling the tank until its spilling all over the ground - and then you keep on going, pumping another 20 gallons onto the ground - to make you a victim of gasoline?
Food is energy. You can only gain fat when you consume too much energy and burn less energy than you consume. There are no "genetic" issues which cause your body to create fat from nothingness. |
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Lets be honest this BS we are seeing through social media etc Fat shaming, it's your genetics etc is just another way of normalising obesity which gives lazy cunts an excuse to continue eating mountains of the wrong food. There is nothing normal about being overweight and it should not be socially acceptable, obesity is the biggest driving factor in the rise of western diseases i.e. Heart disease and cancer. Genetics play a minor role, epigenetics is considerably more important which is something everyone has control over. Exercise regularly, eat plenty of fresh fruit and vegetables. Don't eat junk food/fast food and you'll have no problem controlling weight. |
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There are people with bad metabolisms, but most of the time that bad metabolism is created by lifestyle. You know how they say your metabolism goes to shit as you get older? That's a pile of bullshit. Your lifestyle changes as you get older and that fucks up your metabolism and makes you a fat storing machine. You can undo it.
Morbidly obese people are that way because of poor impulse control. You have to have the calories to make that much body fat and no amount of "bad metabolism" can do that. Too much credit is given to hormones when it's a matter of not being able to stop stuffing food down their gullets. My sister-in-law's excuse is that she's an "emotional eater", which is another pile of bullshit. Any overeating is emotional, even for fit people. I don't eat that 8th slice of pizza because I need it, I do it because it makes me feel good. I have no sympathy for people who get crazy fat and blame their problems on it.
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Mostly it is by choice. Even if you have a very slow metabolism. Eating the right amount of food will not get you into obesity.
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It's also a major factor driving up the cost of healthcare for everyone.
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Sure, metabolism plays a huge role. I didn't gain weight until I quite smoking, although you can argue most people start eating more when they quit smoking. We've all seen it - people who never exercise a day of their life and will always be skinny, and then people who diet and exercise every day and will always be huge.
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Most people sit all day. Sit in your car, sit at your desk, sit at a table, sit on the couch, sit on the toilet.
In America, society has been geared to accommodate convenience and promote isolation. There are multiple drive through fast food joints on your way home. Groceries delivered to your door. Work from home. Convenience foods are made to be high calorie and addictive. In America you have to fight society to not get fat. You must rebel for your own health. |
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Genetics can make you obese, but not extremely obese, that is purely on your fault.
And when it comes to metabolism, some people which have it fast is because they conduct a lot of activities. If you sit 24/7 on computer, then you cant expect to have fast metabolism. |
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Again,...
food is energy a "calorie" is a unit of energy 1lb of fat is 3500 calories of energy your body requires x amount of energy per day to operate (x amount of calories) your body expects x amount of energy per day (something you have A LOT of influence over) at the end of the day, you either have a surplus or deficit of calories (available energy) a surplus is stored as fat there is no "genetic" issue that can cause you to create fat from nothing. generally, metabolic rates vary slightly from individual to individual. but its irrelevant. i have on pro fighter i train and his BMR is 3400 calories a day. factor in the energy needs of training + recovery/repair and he needs another 1000 or so a day, depending on what we're doing. most male adults are at around 2000 calories per day. I am at 1900-2000. generally speaking, f i want to lose fat, i need a consistent 500 calorie a day deficit. If i want to gain muscle, i need a minimum of 500 calorie a day surplus. if i want to gain fat, i need a 500+ a day surplus. if your BMR is 1750 calories a day and you are eating 2250 calories a day consistently and not active, you'll gain fat. this is not rocket science. people talk about genetics as an excuse... and know nothing about diet, nutrition, physiology and exercise and how they relate.... much less how much food a person is actually putting in their mouth. there are no "genetic factors" which alter the laws of thermodynamics. furthermore, there is literally NO BENEFIT WHATSOEVER to anyone, particularly an obese person to furthering the myth that "you just can't help it" and "it's not your fault". Why the fuck would you ever tell someone "Don't even try to save your own life"??? it's probably the most cruel thing you could do to that person. you can't be 400 pounds and NOT be eating an obscene amount of calories every single day to support the energy needs of moving that much weight around. do none of you even consider that obvious fact? an extra 250 pounds is like walking around all day long with 5 45lb plates. you honestly don't get how much energy that requires? that you have to eat fucking birthday cake and pizza and drink coke all day long to get that many calories? you can't be 400 pounds as a male on a normal 2000 calorie a day diet.... as you'd be losing 4-5 pounds a week or more for quite a while. |
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Are Free Will and personal choice and autonomy OVERRATED?
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technically - in the strictest sense, most neuroscientists will argue that you have no free will. that's a long discussion of neuroscience and brain function.
brain processes have no start point and no end point apart from being born and dying and all influence the other in one way or another. further, almost all of your brains activity happens below conscious awareness - which the conscious you has no access to, so you can never truly know why you did anything, why you like anything, why you raised your arm, when or how that decision was made, much less be sure you chose to do it and know that you chose to do it for the reasons you believe you did... you are only aware of the narrative which rose to conscious awareness which explains why you did something. you can tell me that you like the color "green". you can never honestly explain why you like green as you have no access to the unconscious mental processes which led you to say "yes". |
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Discrepancies in people's metabolisms are not naturally as great as everyone would believe. They're altered by how you live your life mostly. If someone has a slow as molasses metabolism, it's most likely because they made it that way and that person can still be fit as long as they are more careful about what and how much they eat. But staying fit requires that your metabolism changes with your waistline. That's why people who lose weight too quickly (the wrong way) snap right back to where they were and then some. Losing weight slowly and adding muscle mass will ensure the weight stays off. I'm saying this as a fit person who just treated himself to a big KFC dinner and a pint of cookie dough ice cream.
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There were far fewer fat kids at school with me in the 50s.
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Speaking only for myself, it was 100% all me and my choices. 2 weeks ago I hit under 300 lbs for the 1st time in probably close to 20 yrs. My goal is to get down to 260'ish.
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This is awesome congrats! You'll do better than you expected because you're aware now. Hats off to you cheers
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what most people fail to understand is that the stomach can be "trained" to process more food...it can also be trained to process less...it adapts...for example I have a hard time finishing a whole hamburger...I rarely eat bread and the meat/bread combo is heavy on my stomach...I dont think I could eat 2 hamburgers without puking...I have a hard time with meat...fish and veggies with no seasoning other than lemon juice is the bulk of my diet...BBQ ribs are a serious challenge for me...the fat makes me want to puke...
this is a result of my adaptation to a clean diet, it was more out of convenience because I have a fish shop close by and they grill it for you, so when I was busy at work I could just order a big grilled fish...I like some lean meats like chicken and lean beef but I cant consume more than say 200grams/7oz it is simply too much for me... my advice to anybody is to man up, eat just fish and veggies for 6 months, you will never want to go back to regular food...your stomach and taste WILL adapt...
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metabolism is based on diet.
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I eat a handful of walnuts every day when I'm getting lean because I think it's important to get my god fats. But it's really not the best food to eat when watching calories. One conservative handful is about 200 calories and it does almost nothing as far as making me feel fuller.
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Middle age spread is a bit of a myth, well ignorance more than anything. You either choose to eat a bit less as you age or do more exercise to compensate, most people do neither and they put on weight. Quote:
Once someone is morbidly obese they have insulin resistance, leptin and ghrelin resistance (hormones that regulate hunger) so they always feel hungry, they usually have depression and their entire bodies are inflamed which can lead to many other illnesses. It's still 100% their own fault that they got to that point, I'm just saying it's a lot more difficult to change once your body is in that much trouble because you're battling against a host of self inflicted problems. Then of coarse if you're filling your body with sugar and junk food you're feeding the bad bacteria in your gut microbiome which comes back to TheSquealers point about conscious and free will, you don't crave the junk food it's your gut microbiome that craves it. |
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The SCIENCE of metabolism is NOT an OPINION
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There were far fewer fat children when I went to school. The body hasn't evolved that much in 50 years. It's all due to eating.
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Notice how the majority of Downs Syndrome children/adults are overweight? Also many prescription drugs including anti-depressants cause weight gain, some by increasing appetite and others it's not understood why. There was some controversial research/studies about diet sodas years ago, not a shocker that people who drink diet soda are often obese, since they also eat a lot of junk food but the interesting part of the research is that food/calorie intake was taken into consideration, those participants that had the same calorie intake but drank diet soda remained the same weight as those who drank sugared sodas. So that suggested that the brain was tricked into believing the artificial sweetener was sugar and the body went through the same routine as if the person ingested all that sugar. Again, it was controversial since they couldn't provide the exact mechanism by which it happens. The brain and body is too complex and incompletely understood to make simple cause and effect statements. Saying that it's also true that for the vast majority of people taking in less energy than they put out all people including the obese will lose weight. Then there's the neuroscience axiom 'All psychology reduces to biology'.
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Hard to speculate MCE, but I'm sure not everyone is a victim of eating too much. I believe there are many different factors playing a role here. Underlying factors that person A is fat can be completely different than for person B apart from calorie intake.
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Here's another study on diet soda drinkers actually gaining weight which would seem impossible since artificial sweeteners contain no calories.
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"influencing".... just as being stressed might "influence" ones eating.. or the weather, or a parent or anything else under the sun.
NOTHING changes the basic fact that in order to gain fat, you must consume more calories than you expend. YOU HAVE 100% CONTROL OVER YOUR BODY WEIGHT. These conversations get quite silly and the arguments even more so. It's like thirst. We can go on for days about what thirst is. We can discuss and debate the intricate feedback mechanisms which tell your brain "drink water" We can discuss and debate for yours how each mechanism might be influenced by another, genetic factors etc etc. We can discuss all the ways in which a body can more efficiently or less efficiently transport water to cells. We can discuss all the various functions of water in the body and the massive cascade of effects that a deficiency would have. We can discuss and debate every role of water in the body and how even slight dehydration might even make you believe you see God. We can discuss all the various effects of dehydration, some genetically influenced and so on. the question in this case, however is quite simple "how do you become severely dehydrated?" and the answer is equally simple,... "you consistently lose a great deal more fluids than you take in". "what do you do to become re-hydrated?" the answer is equally simple .... "drink more fluids than you are losing" as with weight loss, the 1,000,000 other discussions, arguments from molecular biology to environment to bad parenting have no bearing on the basic fundamental fact that you have to consume more calories than you burn to gain fat. to be "morbidly obese" or more to the point "extremely obese" people as the OP put it, you have to be eating WAAAAAAAY more calories than you need just to get there and again WAAAAAAAAY more calories than you need to maintain that body weight. |
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It's mostly a life style thing... genetics do play a part, but less than 30%, I'd say
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I've been skinny my whole life, metabolism of a crack head and I've never touched crack. Only gained like 5 lbs since I've gotten older. Sure metabolism/health issues affects some people but the others more of video games, facebook, etc... When I was a kid we actually did shit, baseball, football, basketball, rode bikes, etc... Go to any Walmart and watch people, no way that's 100% metabolism that's unactive fucks that sit on their ass all day continually shoving food down their throats and the only exercise they get is walking to the car or to grab another box of twinkies in between liking gay shit on facebook. If the parents are fat asses the kids will follow the same pattern.
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Obesity is declining rapidly in the USA and has been for a while.
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You can burn FAT naturally and effortlessly through fish and low carb veggie diet I've sworn off rice, pasta, and other starchy white fluffy SHIT Plus the fish has lots of Omega 3s and DHEA
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