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MissyMiss · 04-24-2003, 11:36 AM

Help me out guys.
If a guy likes to get rough and violent while having sex, do you think that means he's capable of being violent with a girl when they are not in bed?

Steve · 04-24-2003, 11:39 AM

yes
doesn't mean he will, but everyone is capable of becoming violent if someone pushes the right (or wrong) buttons.

Will he become violent? Got me, impossible to judge someone I never met.

detoxed · 04-24-2003, 11:46 AM

Thats bullshit, ask the same question about a woman.

traffictrader · 04-24-2003, 11:51 AM

I can say from experiance that there is absolutely no relation between "rough sex" and "domestic violence"

Hmmm, i need to be more specific, "heathy rough sex"

If its just bitting, and clawing, and bumping and grinding, good ol' fasion rough sex, there is no relation.

If, on the other hand, it's him taking control, not paying attention to your needs and trying to always have the power, there is.

Domestic violence is always about power needs... If its rough sex you both enjoy, don't worry about it, if its rough sex because he is tossing you around trying to be the boss, be a little worried.

NetRodent · 04-24-2003, 11:52 AM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
Help me out guys.
If a guy likes to get rough and violent while having sex, do you think that means he's capable of being violent with a girl when they are not in bed?

Everyone is capable of being violent at any time, regardless of how they behave in bed.

TDF · 04-24-2003, 11:52 AM

asphixiation during sex is great...I choke em till they climax or pass out!

Rictor · 04-24-2003, 11:53 AM

I've dated girls that wanted me to whip them and tie them up and shit, but I can't make myself do that stuff. I don't even like to pretend to hurt some one.

TDF · 04-24-2003, 11:54 AM

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Originally posted by Rictor
I've dated girls that wanted me to whip them and tie them up and shit, but I can't make myself do that stuff. I don't even like to pretend to hurt some one.

why pretend? whoop her ass!!

MissyMiss · 04-24-2003, 12:28 PM

Yeah everyone is capable of being violent, but not every one allows that side of them to show. I mean like slapping girls in the face while having sex, and rough shit like that, and like yanking the hair practically out of her head. I know thats a turn on for some, but think its just out of hand

haggard · 04-24-2003, 12:30 PM

from a guy's point of view and all the stories I've heard...YES. not only will he rough you up in bed but he will rough you up when your arguements get really bad.

12clicks · 04-24-2003, 12:30 PM

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Originally posted by Rictor
I don't even like to pretend to hurt some one.

While I, on the other hand, don't even like to pretend to be nice to some one.

KrazieSweets · 04-24-2003, 12:31 PM

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Originally posted by toodamnfli
asphixiation during sex is great...I choke em till they climax or pass out!

actually that makes a better orgams

beemk · 04-24-2003, 12:59 PM

i would never hit a woman.... unless she deserved it.

Fletch XXX · 04-24-2003, 01:12 PM

why pretend?

edcrack · 04-24-2003, 01:18 PM

Hey missy, lets get together in the valley sometime...I promise I'll be good.

chupacabra · 04-24-2003, 01:30 PM

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If a guy likes to get rough and violent while having sex, do you think that means he's capable of being violent with a girl when they are not in bed?

mmm... well, i for one don't mind getting into some violent sexgames behind closed doors, but only if the women in question is into it as well; hard bondage, whipping, nipple/breast torture, labia stitching, etc. etc.. i can honestly say i've never struck a women in any way, shape or form out of rage or during an argument, period.

so, in answer to your question, i'd have to say that no, one doesn't preclude the other necessarily... now, if the guy in question is *forcing* his ladyfriend into rough sex-acts, thats very different..

Manny The Freak · 04-24-2003, 02:15 PM

No way. If wrong or right buttons are pushed yes a man can erupt. I have never lifted a hand to strike a woman.

kristydoll · 04-24-2003, 02:18 PM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
Help me out guys.
If a guy likes to get rough and violent while having sex, do you think that means he's capable of being violent with a girl when they are not in bed?

Like said, anyone is capable of anything.

But...just because someone likes to play rough in bed - it doesn't mean they will be violent outside the bedroom.

kristy

aztecvision · 04-24-2003, 02:33 PM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
I mean like slapping girls in the face while having sex, and rough shit like that, and like yanking the hair practically out of her head.

Did he call you a whore, and spit on your face too???

Dazza · 04-24-2003, 02:36 PM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
Help me out guys.
If a guy likes to get rough and violent while having sex, do you think that means he's capable of being violent with a girl when they are not in bed?

ANY man can be violent... nuff said

Hind · 04-24-2003, 02:54 PM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
Help me out guys.
If a guy likes to get rough and violent while having sex, do you think that means he's capable of being violent with a girl when they are not in bed?

wow im sure you had a wild night didnt you? can you still sit down?

Rictor · 04-24-2003, 02:58 PM

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Originally posted by toodamnfli

why pretend? whoop her ass!!

I had a girlfriend that liked to be spanked...and she'd complain I didn't do it hard enough. Insulted my manhood, so with all future girlfriends, I made sure I spanked that ass harder.

But I don't think a little spanking is what this thread is about.

Fletch XXX · 04-24-2003, 02:59 PM

my girl likes it rougher than me.

Gutterboy · 04-24-2003, 03:04 PM

I had a gf who liked pain & humiliation in my late teens. Liked to have her nipples tortured, spanking, having me assign tasks to her like serving me dinner, me treating her like a fuck toy, wanted to be called slut, bitch, slave etc.

Funny thng is she was totally normal in every other aspect of life, she just had some deep seated need to be dominated sexually.

I could say I'd never hurt a woman, a woman should be equal, and I didn't enjoy it, but I'd be full of shit. It was lots of fun.

mule · 04-24-2003, 03:07 PM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
Yeah everyone is capable of being violent, but not every one allows that side of them to show. I mean like slapping girls in the face while having sex, and rough shit like that, and like yanking the hair practically out of her head. I know thats a turn on for some, but think its just out of hand

Yes, that's definitely out of hand. Kick him in the nuts next time he does that.

kristydoll · 04-24-2003, 03:08 PM

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Originally posted by Gutterboy
I had a gf who liked pain & humiliation in my late teens. Liked to have her nipples tortured, spanking, having me assign tasks to her like serving me dinner, me treating her like a fuck toy, wanted to be called slut, bitch, slave etc.

Funny thng is she was totally normal in every other aspect of life, she just had some deep seated need to be dominated sexually.

I could say I'd never hurt a woman, a woman should be equal, and I didn't enjoy it, but I'd be full of shit. It was lots of fun.

we are normal!....lol

Gutterboy · 04-24-2003, 03:14 PM

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Originally posted by kristydoll

we are normal!....lol

hehehe, yeah, I realize that now. I only wish I'd had the maturity to realize it then. I was a pretty naieve 17.

If you'd asked me what BDSM was back then I'd have probably guessed it was a school, like SFSU, or UCSC. lol

MissyMiss · 04-24-2003, 03:22 PM

See I think rough sex is one thing but slapping a girl in the face is stepping over the line. I love to have my ass slapped and a little aggressiveness never hurt either, but a womans face is sacred, it should be caressed and good shit like that. I would think it would totally turn off the moment

RedShoe · 04-24-2003, 03:22 PM

Missy! I told you not to post this shit. Just because I want you to punch me in the balls doesn't mean I'm going to hit you.

MissyMiss · 04-24-2003, 03:27 PM

Post what shit? I want to know how the male mind thinks

You know how curious my little brain is. And for all the sex Im not having, when I do start I wanna know what Im getting into!

Eeryone is always talking about fuckin this and fuckin that, Are guys really that brutal in bed?

They seem so nice then you get in bed ....

MissyMiss · 04-24-2003, 03:29 PM

I have a close friend who loves to be called a whore in bed. Now to me that is strange. Isnt sex supposed to be sensual? Cmon guys you gotta school me so I can be pro.

kristydoll · 04-24-2003, 03:37 PM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
I have a close friend who loves to be called a whore in bed. Now to me that is strange. Isnt sex supposed to be sensual? Cmon guys you gotta school me so I can be pro.

I'll let the guys advise you - I don't think we think alike.

kristy

Gman.357 · 04-24-2003, 03:43 PM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
I have a close friend who loves to be called a whore in bed. Now to me that is strange. Isnt sex supposed to be sensual? Cmon guys you gotta school me so I can be pro.

I never knew sex was supposed to be one way.

Glad I don't play by the rules, or I'd be bored to death.

dchottie · 04-24-2003, 03:57 PM

you know Missy I used to be pretty straight laced when it came to sex but after submerging myself in the porn business I found that I was attracted to things that seemed to me at the time to be outside the realm of what I considered normal. Now, yes, I enjoy the nice soft snuggling cuddling stroking kind of sex but there are also times that I become an animal and want the beat me choke me kind of sex. I'm not talking about punching or anything but biting, scratching, asphyxiation and light slapping can definately be a turn on at the right time.

MissyMiss · 04-24-2003, 04:09 PM

See, Im new to the porn business, Sorta, and curiosity has set in. Im also not very experienced in the whole sex ordeal. So I just want to know. Ive never come across a moment where I would want to be brutalized in bed. I would actually be more embarrased than anything.
Yes guys Im a BABY

Gman.357 · 04-24-2003, 04:17 PM

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Originally posted by MissyMiss
See, Im new to the porn business, Sorta, and curiosity has set in. Im also not very experienced in the whole sex ordeal. So I just want to know. Ive never come across a moment where I would want to be brutalized in bed. I would actually be more embarrased than anything.
Yes guys Im a BABY

You may not want to get brutalized, but there are women who love pain. There's women who willingly inflict sexual pain on themselves, because their man won't do it.

I'm sure no man is his right mind will start slapping, or pulling a girls hair out while having sex if she didn't tell him to do it, or if they didn't talk about it first. Unless he doesn't care about possibly getting brought up on assault charges. LOL

Then there's women that love to brutalize men, and men who love to get their balls broke by a woman.

I can't believe you're THAT naive about all this. Come on.

But to answer your original question... there are guys who brutalize willing women, and are fuckin geek business men by day who wouldn't hurt a fly outside the bedroom.

That's life.

RedShoe · 04-24-2003, 04:24 PM

I liked to be called, "Mommy" during sex.

Gman.357 · 04-24-2003, 04:29 PM

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Originally posted by RedShoe
I liked to be called, "Mommy" during sex.

I only respond sexually when a girl spreads her legs and asks: "Polly want a cracker?"

Pornwolf · 04-24-2003, 04:35 PM

I like my women to pretend they are pirates and say Harrrrrr! during sex. Is that strange?

Trolleater · 04-24-2003, 04:45 PM

I'm soon going to start a collection of the stupidest questions asked on here. This one's right up there.

dapproid · 04-24-2003, 04:48 PM

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Yes guys Im a BABY

Maybe a rude question to ask a lady but, Ms Missy, are you a lady???

foreverjason · 04-24-2003, 04:54 PM

rough sex is great.

Lol though, sometimes biting goes to deep!

04-24-2003, 11:36 AM	#1
MissyMiss Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: SFV Posts: 124	Question on rough sex? Help me out guys. If a guy likes to get rough and violent while having sex, do you think that means he's capable of being violent with a girl when they are not in bed? __________________ TRIPLE X CASH

04-24-2003, 11:51 AM	#4
traffictrader Confirmed User Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: ICQ# 93507395 Posts: 1,331	I can say from experiance that there is absolutely no relation between "rough sex" and "domestic violence" Hmmm, i need to be more specific, "heathy rough sex" If its just bitting, and clawing, and bumping and grinding, good ol' fasion rough sex, there is no relation. If, on the other hand, it's him taking control, not paying attention to your needs and trying to always have the power, there is. Domestic violence is always about power needs... If its rough sex you both enjoy, don't worry about it, if its rough sex because he is tossing you around trying to be the boss, be a little worried. __________________

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04-24-2003, 12:28 PM	#9
MissyMiss Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: SFV Posts: 124	Yeah everyone is capable of being violent, but not every one allows that side of them to show. I mean like slapping girls in the face while having sex, and rough shit like that, and like yanking the hair practically out of her head. I know thats a turn on for some, but think its just out of hand __________________ TRIPLE X CASH

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haggard Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Hawaii Posts: 469	from a guy's point of view and all the stories I've heard...YES. not only will he rough you up in bed but he will rough you up when your arguements get really bad. __________________ <img src="http://home.hawaii.rr.com/hobble/robman2.jpg"> the bossman cometh...

04-24-2003, 11:39 AM	#2
Steve Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: USA Posts: 6,894	yes doesn't mean he will, but everyone is capable of becoming violent if someone pushes the right (or wrong) buttons. Will he become violent? Got me, impossible to judge someone I never met.

04-24-2003, 11:46 AM	#3
detoxed vip member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 17,798	Thats bullshit, ask the same question about a woman.

04-24-2003, 11:53 AM	#7
Rictor Old Timer Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 12,208	I've dated girls that wanted me to whip them and tie them up and shit, but I can't make myself do that stuff. I don't even like to pretend to hurt some one.

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04-24-2003, 02:15 PM	#17
Manny The Freak Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Everywhere. Posts: 1,506	No way. If wrong or right buttons are pushed yes a man can erupt. I have never lifted a hand to strike a woman. __________________

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Fletch XXX GFY HALL OF FAME DAMMIT!!! Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: that 504 Posts: 60,840	my girl likes it rougher than me. __________________ Want an Android App for your tube, membership, or free site? Need banners or promo material? Hit us up (ICQ Fletch: 148841377) or email me fletchxxx at gmail.com - recent work - About me

04-24-2003, 03:04 PM	#24
Gutterboy So Fucking Banned Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Dis Posts: 4,751	I had a gf who liked pain & humiliation in my late teens. Liked to have her nipples tortured, spanking, having me assign tasks to her like serving me dinner, me treating her like a fuck toy, wanted to be called slut, bitch, slave etc. Funny thng is she was totally normal in every other aspect of life, she just had some deep seated need to be dominated sexually. I could say I'd never hurt a woman, a woman should be equal, and I didn't enjoy it, but I'd be full of shit. It was lots of fun.

04-24-2003, 03:22 PM	#28
MissyMiss Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: SFV Posts: 124	See I think rough sex is one thing but slapping a girl in the face is stepping over the line. I love to have my ass slapped and a little aggressiveness never hurt either, but a womans face is sacred, it should be caressed and good shit like that. I would think it would totally turn off the moment __________________ TRIPLE X CASH

04-24-2003, 03:22 PM	#29
RedShoe 赤い靴 call me 202-456-1111 Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: The Valley Posts: 14,831	Missy! I told you not to post this shit. Just because I want you to punch me in the balls doesn't mean I'm going to hit you. __________________ SPECIALTY COSTUMES • PROPS • FX Superheroes • Monsters • Robots PM for details For any manufacturing needs. Adult or otherwise. aka BonsHigh on Insta Bonsai weed plants

04-24-2003, 03:27 PM	#30
MissyMiss Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: SFV Posts: 124	Post what shit? I want to know how the male mind thinks You know how curious my little brain is. And for all the sex Im not having, when I do start I wanna know what Im getting into! Eeryone is always talking about fuckin this and fuckin that, Are guys really that brutal in bed? They seem so nice then you get in bed .... __________________ TRIPLE X CASH

04-24-2003, 03:29 PM	#31
MissyMiss Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: SFV Posts: 124	I have a close friend who loves to be called a whore in bed. Now to me that is strange. Isnt sex supposed to be sensual? Cmon guys you gotta school me so I can be pro. __________________ TRIPLE X CASH

04-24-2003, 03:57 PM	#34
dchottie Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 894	you know Missy I used to be pretty straight laced when it came to sex but after submerging myself in the porn business I found that I was attracted to things that seemed to me at the time to be outside the realm of what I considered normal. Now, yes, I enjoy the nice soft snuggling cuddling stroking kind of sex but there are also times that I become an animal and want the beat me choke me kind of sex. I'm not talking about punching or anything but biting, scratching, asphyxiation and light slapping can definately be a turn on at the right time. __________________

04-24-2003, 04:09 PM	#35
MissyMiss Confirmed User Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: SFV Posts: 124	See, Im new to the porn business, Sorta, and curiosity has set in. Im also not very experienced in the whole sex ordeal. So I just want to know. Ive never come across a moment where I would want to be brutalized in bed. I would actually be more embarrased than anything. Yes guys Im a BABY __________________ TRIPLE X CASH

04-24-2003, 04:24 PM	#37
RedShoe 赤い靴 call me 202-456-1111 Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: The Valley Posts: 14,831	I liked to be called, "Mommy" during sex. __________________ SPECIALTY COSTUMES • PROPS • FX Superheroes • Monsters • Robots PM for details For any manufacturing needs. Adult or otherwise. aka BonsHigh on Insta Bonsai weed plants

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04-24-2003, 04:54 PM	#42
foreverjason Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,452	rough sex is great. Lol though, sometimes biting goes to deep!