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Old 09-15-2024, 04:34 PM   #1
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:tongue Pronouns vs. Gender

This shit is just getting weird now... Why can't we just call everyone 'it'

He/Him/His: Himself
She/Her/Hers: Herself
They/Them/Theirs: Themselves
Ze/Zir/Zirs: Zirself
Xe/Xem/Xyr: Xemself
Ey/Em/Eir: Eirself
Ze/Hir/Hirs: Hirself
Ve/Ver/Vis: Verself
Per/Per/Pers: Perself

I understand the need for inclusivity but, how the fuck can all this shit make it clear for the sake of communication without offending someone
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Old 09-15-2024, 04:48 PM   #2
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This shit is just getting weird now... Why can't we just call everyone 'it'

He/Him/His: Himself
She/Her/Hers: Herself
They/Them/Theirs: Themselves
Ze/Zir/Zirs: Zirself
Xe/Xem/Xyr: Xemself
Ey/Em/Eir: Eirself
Ze/Hir/Hirs: Hirself
Ve/Ver/Vis: Verself
Per/Per/Pers: Perself

I understand the need for inclusivity but, how the fuck can all this shit make it clear for the sake of communication without offending someone

No one cares.
Why would anyone make any effort to learn this?
Who expects to be a part of something by learning this ?
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No one cares.
Why would anyone make any effort to learn this?
Who expects to be a part of something by learning this ?
You nazi!!!!!! /s
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Old 09-15-2024, 05:07 PM   #5
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You nazi!!!!!! /s
what ? i am a part of the majority ?
It never happened before...
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I understand the need for inclusivity but, how the fuck can all this shit make it clear for the sake of communication without offending someone
Here's a little help for you, nobody will be offended if you get it wrong. It's how you behave and react to someone pointing out that you used the wrong pronouns.

For example if you call someone who prefers they/them a he/him and they say "I prefer they/them" and you go "oh sorry, I'll use that going forward" then the interaction is done and you're fine, just be mindful of it.

But if you start being a blithering useless cunt of a human being, then well maybe you should stop being a snowflake.

Pronouns aren't fucking hard to use, they're just like names. Once you learn someone's name/pronoun you use it.
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As a straight lefty who is kinda too old and smokes too much weed to be learning new pronouns and remembering them, never met one of these folks in real life who gave a real fuck when I got it wrong. I usually get laughed at for catching myself and trying to get it right... and they say something like "it's fine don't worry about it" and life goes on.

From my life experience it's usually someone that identifies as a straight white male that leans to the right that has a big emotional titty attack over this, and it's always on the internet.
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Mine is easy She/Her, yet people still have problems with it. Of course just people online who I actually tell I'm trans. In public everyone seems to somehow just know I'm she/her. lol
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Completely ignoring this trend. Anyone who doesn't like that can go ...
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Mine is easy She/Her, yet people still have problems with it. Of course just people online who I actually tell I'm trans. In public everyone seems to somehow just know I'm she/her. lol
Wait what, have you always been trans or just relatively recently transition?
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I just call everyone 'yo'. Works well.
I just call people by their names... & if I dont know their name, I'll just smile & say 'Hello'...

The only time I am going to say 'He' 'She' 'His' 'Hers' etc, is when that person isn't there and I'm talking to someone else about that person...

I may theoretically get it wrong - I may even get corrected by the person I'm talking to... However the person I'm referring to isn't there, so its hard for them to take offence...

I really dont get all the fuss about this...
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Completely ignoring this trend. Anyone who doesn't like that can go ...
Same here, I won't be learning this indoctrination fad.
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I just call everyone 'yo mamma'. Works well.
Fixed it for you.

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Thats the way to go about it...

No problems
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Personally, I call everyone MF

I'm 26, when I was a bit younger, the whole they/them thing was becoming more prominent

I had and have trans friends, I've dated a lovely transwomen who wouldn't let me blow her, go figure, and a lot of them were s/he and dismissed them as "rich white kids who wanted to feel special"

Now a lot of them go by...them, I think it's weird AF but they're a very, very insignificant portion of the population and it really ain't a big deal, call em what they want
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it really ain't a big deal, call em what they want
I'll call people what I want to, words out of my mouth are mine to choose. If they're deserving respect or a new introduction will use traditional language or their name. The pronouns fad is a joke.
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I'll call people what I want to, words out of my mouth are mine to choose. If they're deserving respect or a new introduction will use traditional language or their name. The pronouns fad is a joke.
Keep that same energy when people call you what they want.

Also pronouns have existed since the beginning of time.. You literally used multiple in that sentence, you fucking absolute idiot.
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Keep that same energy when people call you what they want..
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Also pronouns have existed since the beginning of time.. You literally used multiple in that sentence, you fucking absolute idiot.
Yup, as I said, "traditional language" (this includes "traditional" pronouns).

Fuck your woke bullshit.

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Yup, as I said, "traditional language" (this includes "traditional" pronouns).

Fuck your woke bullshit.

Have a great day.
That's interesting, considering you moved to Taiwan... Where you have to deal with Taiwan's Gender Equity Education Act (GEEA) and the Act of Gender Equality in Employment (AGEE).

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I'll call people what I want to, words out of my mouth are mine to choose. If they're deserving respect or a new introduction will use traditional language or their name. The pronouns fad is a joke.
Language continously evolves

For example: "Goon" used to be an outdated noun meaning henchman, now it's a verb and "Gooner" is the current noun for an excessive masturbator

It's not like you have to take it up the ass if you call some freak with blue hair xir or they or whatever tf
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Same people who say:

"The COVID vaccine is safe and effective"

Are the same people who say:

"A man in a dress is a woman"
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That's interesting, considering you moved to Taiwan... Where you have to deal with Taiwan's Gender Equity Education Act (GEEA) and the Act of Gender Equality in Employment (AGEE).
Look at you, you Google'd well and that's great, but stop acting as if you have traveled outside of your own city, big guy. Pointing out Acts or laws is without ever stepping foot into a place is like reading an airplane manual and acting like you can fly an airplane.

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Yup, and these are the same people who refer to trans/ladyboy in a derogatory way. It's almost as if they're complete hypocrites.
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Missed this the first time round. Well I knew at age 5 in 1978 I wasn't a boy, but repressed the shit out of it just to survive. Finally started to actually transition 4 years ago almost. Gawd the conventions would have been so much more fun had I had transitioned before then. lol So yes, this isn't anything new for me, finally being myself is pretty new and the happiest I've ever been.


To the haters, you shouldn't be in this industry if you are a bigot. Just saying.
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Missed this the first time round. Well I knew at age 5 in 1978 I wasn't a boy, but repressed the shit out of it just to survive. Finally started to actually transition 4 years ago almost. Gawd the conventions would have been so much more fun had I had transitioned before then. lol So yes, this isn't anything new for me, finally being myself is pretty new and the happiest I've ever been.


To the haters, you shouldn't be in this industry if you are a bigot. Just saying.
Fuck yeah, I'm glad you finally feel yourself! <3
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