What the fuck is WRONG with some people!?!?!? - GoFuckYourself.com

LadyMischief · 12-13-2003, 08:19 AM

Here I've been trying to get a hold of my grandmother for the better part of a week.. She raised me she's more like my mother than my grandmother. And I find out she's been in the hospital for a week, and not a single fucking person from my family found a spare moment to call me and tell me what the fuck.. This is like the 5th time this has happened. I have even told them to call collect, I just can't sit around being worried and wondering!

What the hell can I do to make my family realize that I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THESE THINGS WHEN THEY HAPPEN!? Not a week later? What if something happened and I had to fly out and it was my last chance to say goodbye or something? What the fuck is wrong with some people? Yes I'm ranting here, but maybe someone has some ideas on how I can impress on my family JUST how important this is to me? I mean, wouldn't YOU want to know?

Bleh, end of rant. Merry Christmas everyone.

digi · 12-13-2003, 08:22 AM

Seems like you have a weird family that wont tell you if your grandmother is in the hospital

LadyMischief · 12-13-2003, 08:25 AM

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Originally posted by digi
Seems like you have a weird family that wont tell you if your grandmother is in the hospital

I dunno maybe they're jealous of my relationship with her. My mom and uncles were a wild bunch and just didn't foster as close of a relationship with her as I did. I don't know what the fuck! My family and I normally get along but in these situations they're just a bunch of fucking retards!!

dougeetx · 12-13-2003, 08:53 AM

Sorry to hear about your Grandma! I hope she feels better!

MattO · 12-13-2003, 08:56 AM

you should buy your grandma a medic alert type bracelet that has your ## on it

LadyMischief · 12-13-2003, 09:23 AM

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Originally posted by MattO
you should buy your grandma a medic alert type bracelet that has your ## on it

I would but it won't help much.. I'm 3000 miles away from her

irishfury · 12-13-2003, 09:26 AM

I had the same thing happen with me......Lucky I have force powers and could feel disturbance in the force...I'm not joking if anything ever went wrong I would feel it in the air.......

JFK · 12-13-2003, 09:27 AM

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Originally posted by LadyMischief

I would but it won't help much.. I'm 3000 miles away from her

But at least it would keep you in the loop! Better than nothing

stocktrader23 · 12-13-2003, 09:40 AM

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Originally posted by irishfury
I had the same thing happen with me......Lucky I have force powers and could feel disturbance in the force...I'm not joking if anything ever went wrong I would feel it in the air.......

I do this with everything bad that happens. I get sick as shit to my stomach and nervous as hell. What sucks is I don't know exactly what it is when I get the feeling, could be nothing or something huge. I just have to wait and see what bad news I get that day.

PersianKitty · 12-13-2003, 09:48 AM

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Originally posted by stocktrader23

I do this with everything bad that happens. I get sick as shit to my stomach and nervous as hell. What sucks is I don't know exactly what it is when I get the feeling, could be nothing or something huge. I just have to wait and see what bad news I get that day.

I'm that way with server problems or routing issues. Any drop in bandwidth usage and for some reason I'm checking at that exact moment.

PersianKitty · 12-13-2003, 09:49 AM

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Originally posted by LadyMischief
Here I've been trying to get a hold of my grandmother for the better part of a week.. She raised me she's more like my mother than my grandmother. And I find out she's been in the hospital for a week, and not a single fucking person from my family found a spare moment to call me and tell me what the fuck.. This is like the 5th time this has happened. I have even told them to call collect, I just can't sit around being worried and wondering!

What the hell can I do to make my family realize that I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THESE THINGS WHEN THEY HAPPEN!? Not a week later? What if something happened and I had to fly out and it was my last chance to say goodbye or something? What the fuck is wrong with some people? Yes I'm ranting here, but maybe someone has some ideas on how I can impress on my family JUST how important this is to me? I mean, wouldn't YOU want to know?

Bleh, end of rant. Merry Christmas everyone.

Do you possibly have one family member that lives near her that you're especially close to? or could develop a relationship with (call a couple of times a week, etc). That person might be better at keeping you up on news.

stocktrader23 · 12-13-2003, 09:53 AM

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Originally posted by PersianKitty

I'm that way with server problems or routing issues. Any drop in bandwidth usage and for some reason I'm checking at that exact moment.

Weird, people think I'm crazy sometimes because I know who's calling, knocking, etc as soon as they do. I do stuff like that with everything but when something bad happens it really bothers me because I get the same feeling on small and huge things. It could be my host down or somebody in a car wreck and I just don't know until I figure it out. Sucks.

LadyMischief · 12-13-2003, 09:58 AM

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Originally posted by irishfury
I had the same thing happen with me......Lucky I have force powers and could feel disturbance in the force...I'm not joking if anything ever went wrong I would feel it in the air.......

Well I had that same feeling.. so I started phoning hospitals instead of my family.. and sure enough someone with her name was in. She has a common name so I phoned my mother for confirmation, and she said yeah she's in there, but nothing else. I am so furious I just don't know what to do.

LadyMischief · 12-13-2003, 10:00 AM

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Originally posted by PersianKitty

Do you possibly have one family member that lives near her that you're especially close to? or could develop a relationship with (call a couple of times a week, etc). That person might be better at keeping you up on news.

Yes but unfortunately most of my contacts out there have their own families, and my family are a bunch of useless shits.. there's only my mom, uncles and me. It seems I'm the only one who actually seems to care. I am so pissed off I might just tell them all to shove it and move her out here. At least then I KNOW she's safe and taken care of. For them she's just an inconvenience.

Sid70 · 12-13-2003, 10:00 AM

instead of blaming someone on not calling you when your granny is not ok you better call your grandma yourself more frequent, i'd say bitch .. lol

LadyMischief · 12-13-2003, 10:34 AM

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Originally posted by kievdesign
instead of blaming someone on not calling you when your granny is not ok you better call your grandma yourself more frequent, i'd say bitch .. lol

I call her every single day. If she doesn't answer, what the fuck am I supposed to do? If she's not there, it means there's a problem. How the fuck else would I have known she wasn't ok? Fuck off.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 12-13-2003, 10:56 AM

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Originally posted by LadyMischief
Here I've been trying to get a hold of my grandmother for the better part of a week.. She raised me she's more like my mother than my grandmother. And I find out she's been in the hospital for a week, and not a single fucking person from my family found a spare moment to call me and tell me what the fuck.. This is like the 5th time this has happened. I have even told them to call collect, I just can't sit around being worried and wondering!

What the hell can I do to make my family realize that I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THESE THINGS WHEN THEY HAPPEN!? Not a week later? What if something happened and I had to fly out and it was my last chance to say goodbye or something? What the fuck is wrong with some people? Yes I'm ranting here, but maybe someone has some ideas on how I can impress on my family JUST how important this is to me? I mean, wouldn't YOU want to know?

Bleh, end of rant. Merry Christmas everyone.

I go thru the same thing sometimes....my dad calls me one day and says "oh by the way your mom is in the hospital for surgery on her spine ..she has been paralyzed for the past month and they are going to try and fix it"...WTF! Although they did call me as soon as dad had his heart attack...I just think that no one in my family likes to be the bearer of bad news cause they know i will lose it 3000 miles away and sometime there is nothing i can do about it.

I hope you gram gets well soon Lady M.

C_U_Next_Tuesday · 12-13-2003, 10:58 AM

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Originally posted by kievdesign
instead of blaming someone on not calling you when your granny is not ok you better call your grandma yourself more frequent, i'd say bitch .. lol

ahhh, didnt get your morning ass pumping today fuck nut...go suck a cock already..

what is up with the stupid immature fucks that always have to be so hateful?

LadyMischief · 12-13-2003, 11:01 AM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

I go thru the same thing sometimes....my dad calls me one day and says "oh by the way your mom is in the hospital for surgery on her spine ..she has been paralyzed for the past month and they are going to try and fix it"...WTF! Although they did call me as soon as dad had his heart attack...I just think that no one in my family likes to be the bearer of bad news cause they know i will lose it 3000 miles away and sometime there is nothing i can do about it.

I hope you gram gets well soon Lady M.

Yeah I feel your pain hon.. I think she will be ok but I really don't like the extra stress of having to worry that if something terrible happens they won't tell me.. It's like a nightmare I have that she will die and nobody will tell me until a week later or something..

I may just move her out here I dunno yet.

LadyMischief · 12-13-2003, 11:02 AM

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Originally posted by C_U_Next_Tuesday

ahhh, didnt get your morning ass pumping today fuck nut...go suck a cock already..

what is up with the stupid immature fucks that always have to be so hateful?

Not breastfed as children, smashed on the head too many times as kids.. who knows

It's the AOL generation. Watch out! hehe

Furious_Female · 12-13-2003, 12:08 PM

I come from the most dysfunctional wacky family in the US. My mom is the only normal one.. everyone else is a fuckin lunatic. But yeah they do the same shit with us. They will say a week later, "uncle Sonny was visiting from Texas, we had a party for him at aunt Lorraine's". Meanwhile we weren't even told he was visiting, much less invited to the party. My family does that shit because they are the most selfish assholes on earth. They don't want to share the attention with us... sheer jealousy. My grandmother is the queen selfish bitch.

There's no way you can get your family to start going out of their way to include you in what's going on... my family used to blame it on us being an hour away... they still did it when we moved 5 minutes away. I feel for you, I know how frustrating and disappointing it is.

Hope your grandma gets well soon.

12-13-2003, 08:19 AM	#1
LadyMischief Orgasms N Such! Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Oakville, Ontario Posts: 18,135	What the fuck is WRONG with some people!?!?!? Here I've been trying to get a hold of my grandmother for the better part of a week.. She raised me she's more like my mother than my grandmother. And I find out she's been in the hospital for a week, and not a single fucking person from my family found a spare moment to call me and tell me what the fuck.. This is like the 5th time this has happened. I have even told them to call collect, I just can't sit around being worried and wondering! What the hell can I do to make my family realize that I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THESE THINGS WHEN THEY HAPPEN!? Not a week later? What if something happened and I had to fly out and it was my last chance to say goodbye or something? What the fuck is wrong with some people? Yes I'm ranting here, but maybe someone has some ideas on how I can impress on my family JUST how important this is to me? I mean, wouldn't YOU want to know? Bleh, end of rant. Merry Christmas everyone. __________________ ICQ 3522039 Content Manager - orgasm.com [email protected]

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Furious_Female Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Upstate, New York Posts: 8,187	I come from the most dysfunctional wacky family in the US. My mom is the only normal one.. everyone else is a fuckin lunatic. But yeah they do the same shit with us. They will say a week later, "uncle Sonny was visiting from Texas, we had a party for him at aunt Lorraine's". Meanwhile we weren't even told he was visiting, much less invited to the party. My family does that shit because they are the most selfish assholes on earth. They don't want to share the attention with us... sheer jealousy. My grandmother is the queen selfish bitch. There's no way you can get your family to start going out of their way to include you in what's going on... my family used to blame it on us being an hour away... they still did it when we moved 5 minutes away. I feel for you, I know how frustrating and disappointing it is. Hope your grandma gets well soon. __________________ Skype: j3nn.com ICQ 160370494 My current favorite high-converting sponsor: CrakRevenue

12-13-2003, 08:22 AM	#2
digi Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: ON, Canada Posts: 1,314	Seems like you have a weird family that wont tell you if your grandmother is in the hospital

12-13-2003, 08:56 AM	#5
MattO The O is for Oohhh Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: AUSTIN TEJAS Posts: 10,861	you should buy your grandma a medic alert type bracelet that has your ## on it