Relationships: To break up or not break up? - GoFuckYourself.com

SmutGiant · 07-12-2004, 01:00 AM

I'm considering ending a relationship with the first girl I ever loved. We both just don't seem happy anymore and I remember being happier while single. Part of me feels being single will be a relief but another part of me can't seem to let go of her.

Here are my options so far
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- take a 2 week or so break and see how we feel after. Or maybe the idea of taking a break and "if you dont call me in 2 weeks it's officially over etc."

- clean quick breakup

IPK · 07-12-2004, 01:04 AM

if you take a break, be prepared to walk away

ShellyCrash · 07-12-2004, 01:05 AM

How long have you guys been together? If you ask to take a break you risk ending your relationship so really think it over before you go ahead with whatever you decide.

pine · 07-12-2004, 01:07 AM

Dude, in all seriousness...asking for lovelife advice from a bunch of strangers behind anonymous screennames on a message board seems a little strange.

SmutGiant · 07-12-2004, 01:25 AM

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Originally posted by pine
Dude, in all seriousness...asking for lovelife advice from a bunch of strangers behind anonymous screennames on a message board seems a little strange.

GFY is like my therapy, lol. It's 4:30 am and a little under the influence at the moment

SmutGiant · 07-12-2004, 01:26 AM

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Originally posted by ShellyCrash
How long have you guys been together? If you ask to take a break you risk ending your relationship so really think it over before you go ahead with whatever you decide.

Just over 7 months.

strobi · 07-12-2004, 01:29 AM

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Originally posted by SmutGiant
Just over 7 months.

Well if you're growing apart after just 7 months, maybe better to end it.

nofx · 07-12-2004, 01:34 AM

ey smutgiant, man you still got those crabs from being a prostitutes client? hehe jk jk

man I've thought about this so many times. I've been in this relationship with my current gf for 2 and a half years. we recently decided to become 'just friends' but we are still going out. we both decided to not see other people or have sex with anyone else. we still talk to each other and all that but we just dont consider ourselves to be going out atm. i dunno man its some fucked up shit.

girls is crazy!

=^..^= · 07-12-2004, 01:36 AM

if it's not working after such a short time probably better to end it

i dunno, hard to say i dont know you guys personally or her side of the stroy.
Take a break - abscence makes the heart grow fonder

SmutGiant · 07-12-2004, 01:57 AM

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Originally posted by nofx
ey smutgiant, man you still got those crabs from being a prostitutes client? hehe jk jk

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Originally posted by nofx
girls is crazy!

Definetly. It's tempting to hold on, and scary to let go. Hoping to make my decision within the next day or two. Unless she makes it first lol.

mcmc · 07-12-2004, 02:02 AM

7 months

in general i would say, dont break a serious relationship with the first problem coming around the corner. Many couples get some problems especially in their sex life. So what? Just try to make it more interesting and everything is fine again.

Groove · 07-12-2004, 02:09 AM

If there are problems that you are BOTH willing to fix, have a go at fixing them. If not, make a quick clean break.

SmutGiant · 07-12-2004, 02:12 AM

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Originally posted by mcmc
7 months

in general i would say, dont break a serious relationship with the first problem coming around the corner. Many couples get some problems especially in their sex life. So what? Just try to make it more interesting and everything is fine again.

actually reasons are recurring problems since around the second month. Definetly NOT a first time fight.

Entropy · 07-12-2004, 02:31 AM

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Originally posted by IPK
if you take a break, be prepared to walk away

If you take a break, be prepared to have her riding another mans cock.

andrej_NDC · 07-12-2004, 03:01 AM

You will have the same problems with other girl after some time, you cannot avoid that. Every relationship is great in the beginning and then you have to fight more and more problems. But it can be still nice, depends on both parts. The problem is monogamy - the worst invention of mankind. Its so unnatural, damn, most people are so stupid.

samuel · 07-12-2004, 03:03 AM

Sometimes is good to take a break, then you can think about te other person, without the other person next to you.. sometimes it causes a definitive break.. sometimes people realize than they love each other.. just try..

samuel

kowntafit · 07-12-2004, 03:23 AM

The break can often be a smooth break up. So unless you want to break up I'd concider trying to do the opposite. Try to see her more and do more stuff together. Or take a break together.

FuckFind · 07-12-2004, 03:25 AM

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Originally posted by Entropy
If you take a break, be prepared to have her riding another mans cock.

what he said.

either your together or not, "breaks" are precisely how shit hits the fan.

FF

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07-12-2004, 01:00 AM	#1
SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,895	Relationships: To break up or not break up? I'm considering ending a relationship with the first girl I ever loved. We both just don't seem happy anymore and I remember being happier while single. Part of me feels being single will be a relief but another part of me can't seem to let go of her. Here are my options so far ---------------------------------- - take a 2 week or so break and see how we feel after. Or maybe the idea of taking a break and "if you dont call me in 2 weeks it's officially over etc." - clean quick breakup Last edited by SmutGiant; 07-12-2004 at 01:01 AM..

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nofx Too lazy to set a custom title Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Virgin Mary's womb Posts: 16,826	ey smutgiant, man you still got those crabs from being a prostitutes client? hehe jk jk man I've thought about this so many times. I've been in this relationship with my current gf for 2 and a half years. we recently decided to become 'just friends' but we are still going out. we both decided to not see other people or have sex with anyone else. we still talk to each other and all that but we just dont consider ourselves to be going out atm. i dunno man its some fucked up shit. girls is crazy! __________________ Often times I wonder why There's love and hate, theres live or die. When sickness comes I must decide: When feelings go, theres suicide.

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=^..^= Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: ICQ 380-366 Posts: 6,935	if it's not working after such a short time probably better to end it i dunno, hard to say i dont know you guys personally or her side of the stroy. Take a break - abscence makes the heart grow fonder __________________ #RememberYourRoots #AaronMForGFYHOF

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mcmc Confirmed User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Switzerland Posts: 1,705	7 months in general i would say, dont break a serious relationship with the first problem coming around the corner. Many couples get some problems especially in their sex life. So what? Just try to make it more interesting and everything is fine again. __________________ http://www.AdultDVDdb.com Conversion: 1:149 (so far this year with more than 650 000 unique hits) @ http://www.pimproll.com

07-12-2004, 02:09 AM	#12
Groove Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 3,852	If there are problems that you are BOTH willing to fix, have a go at fixing them. If not, make a quick clean break.

07-12-2004, 03:01 AM	#15
andrej_NDC Registered User Industry Role: Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 7,760	You will have the same problems with other girl after some time, you cannot avoid that. Every relationship is great in the beginning and then you have to fight more and more problems. But it can be still nice, depends on both parts. The problem is monogamy - the worst invention of mankind. Its so unnatural, damn, most people are so stupid.

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samuel Confirmed User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: email address Posts: 1,986	Sometimes is good to take a break, then you can think about te other person, without the other person next to you.. sometimes it causes a definitive break.. sometimes people realize than they love each other.. just try.. samuel

07-12-2004, 03:23 AM	#17
kowntafit Confirmed User Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Australia Posts: 4,667	The break can often be a smooth break up. So unless you want to break up I'd concider trying to do the opposite. Try to see her more and do more stuff together. Or take a break together. __________________ This is where my next million is coming from!