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whatif_3 · 06-17-2009, 09:42 AM

when i grew up, i thought that marriage was sacred, once you made that commitment, that was it.

years later, i have determined that much of this is a farce. i have some friends that are very faithful/loyal to their wives, but the majority of the successful ones, have something going on the side, whether the wive knows about it or not.

the situation becomes one of, well, we have 2 kids together and i make a lot of money, what will she do, leave me? sort of thing

things seem to work fine, at least on the surface

me? im losing out on a lot because its hard for me to commit to being a 1 woman man for the rest of my life, so my relationships never get to that point anyway

your thoughts?

SilentKnight · 06-17-2009, 09:48 AM

Admittedly, I was a stereotypical dawg growing up - I never committed to a relationship and cheated on practically every girlfriend I had. So I can understand and appreciate both sides of the fence.

Somewhere along the line - the routine got stale...and 14 years ago I committed to my current wife.

We celebrate our 11th anniversary this August - and I don't regret a moment of monogamy.

count of monte cristo · 06-17-2009, 10:30 AM

i think it depends on what circles you hang out in

Yen_HerbalRevenue · 06-17-2009, 10:33 AM

I still have that little girl fantasy that I'll meet the right guy for me and well get married and live happily ever after. I don't think this would ever change, no matter how successful he is or how many kids we have together. I couldn't look at someone the same who does not respect our marriage.

If you can't commit to one person who shouldn't force yourself. It would only end in heartbreak.

seeandsee · 06-17-2009, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by count of monte cristo

i think it depends on what circles you hang out in

SleazyDream · 06-17-2009, 10:35 AM

swing.

i couldn't live without having sex with other women occasionally. it's hotter when my girlfriend is there.

StaceyJo · 06-17-2009, 10:38 AM

Sad. Been surrounded by cheaters.

jcsike · 06-17-2009, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

swing.

i couldn't live without having sex with other women occasionally. it's hotter when my girlfriend is there.

i have the need, on occasion, to conquer strange new pussy. i think its like the lion sitting there with all the lionesses, they bring him the food, he has everything he needs and is the man.

but on occasion, he has to run off and kill a hyena or something just to prove that hes a badass.

but its real nice when your girls into it

ztik · 06-17-2009, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by SleazyDream

swing.

i couldn't live without having sex with other women occasionally. it's hotter when my girlfriend is there.

Your name definitely suits you

Personally, I don't see the point in sleeping around, nor do I have the urge to. I would much rather have a solid healthy relationship.

MaDalton · 06-17-2009, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by whatif_3

years later, i have determined that much of this is a farce. i have some friends that are very faithful/loyal to their wives, but the majority of the successful ones, have something going on the side, whether the wive knows about it or not.

the situation becomes one of, well, we have 2 kids together and i make a lot of money, what will she do, leave me? sort of thing

things seem to work fine, at least on the surface

you just described 85% of the married men in this industry

Bama · 06-17-2009, 10:56 AM

A cow with all the grass he cares to eat in his own pasture gets too fat to jump the fence.

Not exactly "Confucius deep thought" material but a logical analogy none the less...

count of monte cristo · 06-17-2009, 11:01 AM

learned in biology class that a) women want to find a strong mate who can protect them and their child and b) men want to spread their seed as often as possible

it all made sense after that.

tranza · 06-17-2009, 01:35 PM

Cheating is inside our DNA.

Adult Insider Dave · 06-17-2009, 01:39 PM

I have had the same issues bro. I have been in a couple 4 year relationships but the "one woman" thing killed it for me. It sucks being a guy tbh, all I can think of every time i see a good looking woman is that i wanna fuck her. Kids are really the only reason I would ever get married, and the older i get the more it seems like something I want to do.

Darkland · 06-17-2009, 02:14 PM

Why is this question for men only? Are women not allowed to cheat equally or does that just make them a whore or a slut in the male reptilian brain?

If you can't stay faithful to one women what the fuck are you doing in a relationship. Cheaters don't BELONG in relationships and the ones that do are sociopaths who don't give a shit about anyone but themselves. Do everyone a favor and stay single. For every supposed swinger or open relationship that people claim to be successful there are many who aren't and only end in heartache for everyone but the selfish bastard who initiated it.

I feel sorry for the kids who grow up in these type of homes because lets face it, what an awesome lesson they are learning on how to treat people.

brassmonkey · 06-17-2009, 02:15 PM

its not cheating unless u get caught

beerptrol · 06-17-2009, 02:25 PM

1. Find a women that is into open marriages. But don't be surprised if she falls for someone with a bigger cock

2. find a women who is bi and into u2 sharing chicks

3. Don't be a cheater. If the woman isnt into the above 2 situations then dont commit to her

06-17-2009, 09:42 AM	#1
whatif_3 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Canada Posts: 459	should some men be allowed to cheat? when i grew up, i thought that marriage was sacred, once you made that commitment, that was it. years later, i have determined that much of this is a farce. i have some friends that are very faithful/loyal to their wives, but the majority of the successful ones, have something going on the side, whether the wive knows about it or not. the situation becomes one of, well, we have 2 kids together and i make a lot of money, what will she do, leave me? sort of thing things seem to work fine, at least on the surface me? im losing out on a lot because its hard for me to commit to being a 1 woman man for the rest of my life, so my relationships never get to that point anyway your thoughts?

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SilentKnight Megan Fox's fluffer Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: shooting pool in Elysium Posts: 24,818	Admittedly, I was a stereotypical dawg growing up - I never committed to a relationship and cheated on practically every girlfriend I had. So I can understand and appreciate both sides of the fence. Somewhere along the line - the routine got stale...and 14 years ago I committed to my current wife. We celebrate our 11th anniversary this August - and I don't regret a moment of monogamy.

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Bama Confirmed User Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: Redmond, WA Posts: 2,727	A cow with all the grass he cares to eat in his own pasture gets too fat to jump the fence. Not exactly "Confucius deep thought" material but a logical analogy none the less...

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count of monte cristo Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: monte cristo Posts: 473	learned in biology class that a) women want to find a strong mate who can protect them and their child and b) men want to spread their seed as often as possible it all made sense after that. __________________ premier payment sending company

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Adult Insider Dave Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 533	I have had the same issues bro. I have been in a couple 4 year relationships but the "one woman" thing killed it for me. It sucks being a guy tbh, all I can think of every time i see a good looking woman is that i wanna fuck her. Kids are really the only reason I would ever get married, and the older i get the more it seems like something I want to do. __________________ Promote our penis growth and acne books, earn 75% on sales and rebills. Contact me if you want a custom backend like Pornstarbucks and Freenetpass integrated with any billing gateway:

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Darkland Confirmed User Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 1,488	Why is this question for men only? Are women not allowed to cheat equally or does that just make them a whore or a slut in the male reptilian brain? If you can't stay faithful to one women what the fuck are you doing in a relationship. Cheaters don't BELONG in relationships and the ones that do are sociopaths who don't give a shit about anyone but themselves. Do everyone a favor and stay single. For every supposed swinger or open relationship that people claim to be successful there are many who aren't and only end in heartache for everyone but the selfish bastard who initiated it. I feel sorry for the kids who grow up in these type of homes because lets face it, what an awesome lesson they are learning on how to treat people. __________________ "The towers are gone now, reduced to bloody rubble, along with all hopes for Peace in Our Time, in the United States or any other country. Make no mistake about it: We are At War now -- with somebody -- and we will stay At War with that mysterious Enemy for the rest of our lives." H.S.T. 09/12/01

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beerptrol Confirmed Asshole Industry Role: Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Half way between sobriety and fubar. Posts: 12,722	1. Find a women that is into open marriages. But don't be surprised if she falls for someone with a bigger cock 2. find a women who is bi and into u2 sharing chicks 3. Don't be a cheater. If the woman isnt into the above 2 situations then dont commit to her __________________ “If we are to have another contest in the near future of our national existence, I predict that the dividing line will not be Mason and Dixon's but between patriotism and intelligence on the one side, and superstition, ambition and ignorance on the other.” -- Ulysses S. Grant