Panic attacks during sex? - GoFuckYourself.com

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 06:13 PM

I know, we all gangsta and shit, bling blingin with different bitches and hoes every night... but sometimes we just have a "bad night" and years of street cred is gone just like that.

Anyone else experience this from time to time? Part performance anxiety, part life flashing before your eyes, part mind & heart racing, trouble breathing etc.

I even remember a few times where I started crying for no reason.

It sucked cuz I had already paid those hookers and they left without finishing.

TheSquealer · 08-16-2013, 06:20 PM

I'm not a doctor, but it sounds like you're just a bitch.

Harmon · 08-16-2013, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

I'm not a doctor, but it sounds like you're just a bitch.

I just spit out my Gatorade

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

I'm not a doctor, but it sounds like you're just a bitch.

It sure does sound like that eh?

But really though it's happened like a handful of times out of about 200 women. It's fucked man, I just get all these messed up thoughts and flashbacks and it fucks me all up.

TheSquealer · 08-16-2013, 06:31 PM

It's called anxiety. Now you feel more anxious because you are anxious about being anxious. You choose what to think about. You choose what to focus your attention on. Unless you have some mental disorder, chemical imbalance etc. it's a choice. You can always make better choices in those lents as to where and to what you fired your attention

CyberHustler · 08-16-2013, 06:32 PM

Try getting drunk...

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

It's called anxiety. Now you feel more anxious because you are anxious about being anxious.

That's the worst fucking part!!!

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by CyberHustler

Try getting drunk...

Can't remember one time I've had sex whole sober come to think of it

iSpyCams · 08-16-2013, 06:33 PM

Happens to my wife all the time, she wakes up and she's like "WTF??? Get off me!"

Crazy, right?

DTK · 08-16-2013, 06:40 PM

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Happens to my wife all the time, she wakes up and she's like "WTF??? Get off me!"

Crazy, right?

oppoten · 08-16-2013, 06:42 PM

Switch off and let her ride it. Hookers want you to be passive anyway.

TheSquealer · 08-16-2013, 06:43 PM

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That's the worst fucking part!!!

It is only what you make it. When you understand and accept that, you can then change it.

We are not taking about real, tangible things. It's not a broken arm, it's not a 3rd degree burn, it's not a severed limb.

It's something that does not exist and that isn't real.

It's a thought.

Your thoughts are what you want them to be. Stop drinking. Stop drugs. Get ahold of yourself.

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 06:44 PM

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Happens to my wife all the time, she wakes up and she's like "WTF??? Get off me!"

That's pretty much what happened with the last chick I was with the next day after the night I couldn't perform.

Sly · 08-16-2013, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by oppoten

Hookers want you to be passive anyway.

Are they paying you?

mikesinner · 08-16-2013, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by SmutGiant

I know, we all gangsta and shit, bling blingin with different bitches and hoes every night... but sometimes we just have a "bad night" and years of street cred is gone just like that.

Anyone else experience this from time to time? Part performance anxiety, part life flashing before your eyes, part mind & heart racing, trouble breathing etc.

I even remember a few times where I started crying for no reason.

It sucked cuz I had already paid those hookers and they left without finishing.

You need to find some better hoes, my hookers always hold me until my time is up in these situations.

L-Pink · 08-16-2013, 06:51 PM

Sounds like you need a finger in your ass.

TheSquealer · 08-16-2013, 06:56 PM

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Sounds like you need a finger in your ass.

Nice to see the community pull together and selflessly volunteer to help others.

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

Nice to see the community pull together and selflessly volunteer to help others.

oppoten · 08-16-2013, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Sly

Are they paying you?

No, but I just think the "performance" part needs to be taken out of performance anxiety. You don't need to perform with hookers.

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 07:04 PM

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No, but I just think the "performance" part needs to be taken out of performance anxiety. You don't need to perform with hookers.

I don't think it was performance anxiety with the hookers. I think of dumb shit like here I am paying for it while x chick getting it for free etc

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 07:05 PM

With the last chick I was with I just couldn't get her ex's ugly mug out of my head fuck I was going insane.

L-Pink · 08-16-2013, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

Nice to see the community pull together and selflessly volunteer to help others.

Hahaha not exactly what I meant. Fucking hilarious though!

Elli · 08-16-2013, 07:07 PM

200 ladies? Maybe you should narrow yourself down to a few that you actually enjoy being with?

TheSquealer · 08-16-2013, 07:13 PM

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200 ladies? Maybe you should narrow yourself down to a few that you actually enjoy being with?

ANY and every woman that wants to have sex is someone we want to be with.

ASHORETHING · 08-16-2013, 07:15 PM

I'm sure youre just putting too much pressure on yourself to perform, and you need to think about why that is with that particular girl and discuss that problem or discuss it with her

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

ANY and every woman that wants to have sex is someone we want to be with.

on a roll tonight!

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by ASHORETHING

I'm sure youre just putting too much pressure on yourself to perform, and you need to think about why that is with that particular girl and discuss that problem or discuss it with her

Went out with her once before she got together with the x... I had some minor anxiety which is normal for me, but still went great...nothing like the most recent time which was just a few days after her breakup and I guess I had the extra pressure of competition.

Anyways she won't even talk to me anymore so whatever.

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 07:26 PM

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200 ladies? Maybe you should narrow yourself down to a few that you actually enjoy being with?

Kinda been on a rampage since that chick I dated while I was in high school that I used to post about lol.

TheSquealer · 08-16-2013, 07:28 PM

Haha Elli
Poor naive girl.

I love the female romanticized idea of a guy meeting someone.

"find someone special".....

And all guys hear is

"Maybe you'll find an 18 yr old Korean cum junkie who loves cooking, cleaning and pouring beer down your throat as she jerks you off while her twin sisters go down on each other and your girl keeps telling you to join them"

It's always a confusing notion when a woman says "you need to wait for someone special" as if guys are banging toothless whores as a first choice.

sarettah · 08-16-2013, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

ANY and every woman is someone we want to be with.

Fixed that for you

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sarettah · 08-16-2013, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by SmutGiant

.nothing like the most recent time which was just a few days after her breakup and I guess I had the extra pressure of competition.

Yeah the thought of some big asshole walking in and kicking the shit out of me affects me the same way sometimes.

You need to do something to shift the focus, think of something else, like, um, hey, what is that thing on her lip anyway?

.

mikesinner · 08-16-2013, 07:34 PM

If this really is hooker sex then I think you need to slow down and try to build some long term relationships even if they are with working girls. Try to look for girls you have more in common with and build some intimacy.

Moving from escorts to strippers might be a good move.

TheSquealer · 08-16-2013, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by mikesinner

If this really is hooker sex then I think you need to slow down and try to build some long term relationships even if they are with working girls. Try to look for girls you have more in common with and build some intimacy.

Moving from escorts to strippers might be a good move.

Dear bitch tits,

You need to see an endocrinologist and get your hormones checked before your transformation to woman has progressed too far and can't be reversed.

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AllAboutCams · 08-16-2013, 07:48 PM

Why where you crying

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 08:00 PM

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Yeah the thought of some big asshole walking in and kicking the shit out of me affects me the same way sometimes.
.

yep, that was another recurring thought actually.

AllAboutCams · 08-16-2013, 08:04 PM

What brought this on

SmutGiant · 08-16-2013, 08:09 PM

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What brought this on

my most recent sexual experience but I'm about to go get drunk and forget all about it

SplatterMaster · 08-16-2013, 09:27 PM

Yeah, like everything else there's a pill for that

mikesinner · 08-16-2013, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

Dear bitch tits,

You need to see an endocrinologist and get your hormones checked before your transformation to woman has progressed too far and can't be reversed.

Man card..... REVOKED!

It's people like you that hold the world back, it's perfectly fine for men to be more in touch with their emotions, just like it's fine for women to be more aggressive. It has nothing to do with what genitals you have.

Captain Kawaii · 08-16-2013, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by SmutGiant

It sure does sound like that eh?

But really though it's happened like a handful of times out of about 200 women. It's fucked man, I just get all these messed up thoughts and flashbacks and it fucks me all up.

There's a movie in that. You can sell it to Ben Stiller.

Bourke · 08-17-2013, 12:07 AM

If it gets too much, see a sex therapist. Kinda like an escort and shrink in one. They fuck you as therapy for your sex issues.

MrBottomTooth · 08-17-2013, 12:13 AM

You sure you're just not having real mini heart attacks?

SmutGiant · 08-17-2013, 12:47 AM

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You sure you're just not having real mini heart attacks?

That thought crossed my mind too dude. My heart was about to pound out of my chest. Fuck I'm drunk.

Bourke · 08-17-2013, 12:54 AM

I've had two heart attacks. They are incredibly fucking painful. If it is just a pounding heart it is likely to be stress induced palpatations.

Markul · 08-17-2013, 01:17 AM

I've had quite a lot of panic attacks in my younger days, waking up to some monster of a female being thinking: WTF HAPPENED?! I GOT TO GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE!

SmutGiant · 08-17-2013, 01:31 AM

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If it gets too much, see a sex therapist. Kinda like an escort and shrink in one. They fuck you as therapy for your sex issues.

link? anyone know if OHIP covers this shit??

nico-t · 08-17-2013, 04:00 AM

thesquealer is on point with every post.

Bryan G · 08-17-2013, 06:46 AM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

I'm not a doctor, but it sounds like you're just a bitch.

Elli · 08-17-2013, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by TheSquealer

Haha Elli
Poor naive girl.

I love the female romanticized idea of a guy meeting someone.

"find someone special".....

And all guys hear is

"Maybe you'll find an 18 yr old Korean cum junkie who loves cooking, cleaning and pouring beer down your throat as she jerks you off while her twin sisters go down on each other and your girl keeps telling you to join them"

It's always a confusing notion when a woman says "you need to wait for someone special" as if guys are banging toothless whores as a first choice.

It's as if men think women don't want to jump on every penis that walks by. We hold back for fear of our own safety and for fear of certain societal damages. That doesn't make us less horny.. just less careless.

And I didn't mean he needs to wait to find someone special. I meant just try to have a few repeat dates with one woman. Just a few. Enough to know each other's last names, maybe. That could alleviate some anxiety.

TheSquealer · 08-17-2013, 08:01 AM

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It's people like you that hold the world back, it's perfectly fine for men to be more in touch with their emotions, just like it's fine for women to be more aggressive. It has nothing to do with what genitals you have.

Its people like me that built the world. That dreamed. That conquered. That did the impossible. That first circumnavigated the globe. That built the worlds largest ships, the worlds largest sky scrapers and put men on the moon. Women did not do those things and neither did people like you.

Its gender confused people like you that sat at home, brushing your 10 cats saying people like me need to slow down and think about the feelings of others.

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SmutGiant Confirmed User Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 4,894	Panic attacks during sex? I know, we all gangsta and shit, bling blingin with different bitches and hoes every night... but sometimes we just have a "bad night" and years of street cred is gone just like that. Anyone else experience this from time to time? Part performance anxiety, part life flashing before your eyes, part mind & heart racing, trouble breathing etc. I even remember a few times where I started crying for no reason. It sucked cuz I had already paid those hookers and they left without finishing.

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TheSquealer BANNED Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: In Your Head Posts: 25,169	It's called anxiety. Now you feel more anxious because you are anxious about being anxious. You choose what to think about. You choose what to focus your attention on. Unless you have some mental disorder, chemical imbalance etc. it's a choice. You can always make better choices in those lents as to where and to what you fired your attention Last edited by TheSquealer; 08-16-2013 at 06:32 PM..

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TheSquealer BANNED Industry Role: Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: In Your Head Posts: 25,169	Haha Elli Poor naive girl. I love the female romanticized idea of a guy meeting someone. "find someone special"..... And all guys hear is "Maybe you'll find an 18 yr old Korean cum junkie who loves cooking, cleaning and pouring beer down your throat as she jerks you off while her twin sisters go down on each other and your girl keeps telling you to join them" It's always a confusing notion when a woman says "you need to wait for someone special" as if guys are banging toothless whores as a first choice. Last edited by TheSquealer; 08-16-2013 at 07:34 PM..

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