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Naughty · 05-05-2007, 12:41 PM

Been a rough ride. Going out for 2,25 years now. We already have an 8 month old kid and we have been living together since the second month.

Unfuckingbelievable.

MetaMan · 05-05-2007, 12:43 PM

It is your kids fault.

hahahha jk

Naughty · 05-05-2007, 12:46 PM

He rules, kids are never the fault, they just think they are.

MetaMan · 05-05-2007, 12:48 PM

i know bad joke.

but it would be better to seperate then to continue to not get along. never good to drag things out if you know they are over.

Fap · 05-05-2007, 01:04 PM

Sorry to hear that man

baddog · 05-05-2007, 01:06 PM

real smart

sicone · 05-05-2007, 01:08 PM

Shit happens in every relationship.. sometimes it can be worked out, sometimes you just gotta move on.

Dveron · 05-05-2007, 01:11 PM

When you're that early into a relationship and you have a kid it makes things a lot harder. You guys are still trying to figure out your relationship now the honeymoon period is over and you either come together or move apart but add a kid into the mix during this time and it makes it a lot harder becuase the focus moves more towards the kid - especially for you significant other.

I am in a pretty similar situation right now. I would seek counseling if I was you. At least then you can say you've done all you can to try and work it out.

Pumba · 05-05-2007, 01:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sicone

Shit happens in every relationship.. sometimes it can be worked out, sometimes you just gotta move on.

I agree. It is sometime better to move on then trying to work out something that simply can't work. Good luck.

Naughty · 05-05-2007, 01:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dveron

When you're that early into a relationship and you have a kid it makes things a lot harder. You guys are still trying to figure out your relationship now the honeymoon period is over and you either come together or move apart but add a kid into the mix during this time and it makes it a lot harder becuase the focus moves more towards the kid - especially for you significant other.

I am in a pretty similar situation right now. I would seek counseling if I was you. At least then you can say you've done all you can to try and work it out.

She wanted that as well. But I'm 35, she's 25. I think the difference is too big in this relationship.

You're right on the money about the other things though: She's high maintainance, that doesn't work well when most attention goes to my son, work and then there's myself too ;-)
I tried though, seems to not work.

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MetaMan I AM WEB 2.0 Industry Role: Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 28,682	i know bad joke. but it would be better to seperate then to continue to not get along. never good to drag things out if you know they are over.

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Dveron Confirmed User Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: Vancouver Posts: 2,794	When you're that early into a relationship and you have a kid it makes things a lot harder. You guys are still trying to figure out your relationship now the honeymoon period is over and you either come together or move apart but add a kid into the mix during this time and it makes it a lot harder becuase the focus moves more towards the kid - especially for you significant other. I am in a pretty similar situation right now. I would seek counseling if I was you. At least then you can say you've done all you can to try and work it out.